no what i mean is im not looking to change my workout as far as excersizes go.
To achieve your goals, it may be necessary to change your workout. Saying, "I want to get stronger [or whatever] but I don't want to change my exercises" is like saying, "I want to lose weight, but I don't want to change my diet." It's not going to work.
These aren't theories. People here have lifted a lot of weight and changed their bodies. I quite literally make my living with the advice I give people, it's tested and shown to work. You can reject it if you want, it's your body, you have to do the work and live with the results. Up to you.
You are undertraining, You need to work out your whole body 2 or more times each week with basic compound movements, no fucking about with splits and isolation work. Whether this leads to your getting bigger muscles depends on whether you eat properly or not.
I like going the gym and sweating etc. Doing 5,3 and 1 i know that i wont feel like ive evn worked out. Ill barely break a sweat.
Not speaking for 5/3/1 in particular, since I believe that most likely you need something more basic. However, you shouldn't assume something is easy until you've tried it.
i seen most dudes on here. Alot of flabby looking ****s who are no doubt strong but yeh thats not what im totally looking for.
I think that you will not find much help from people if you begin by insulting them. I mean, nobody is going to run off and have a sook or ask for you to be banned, this isn't an American forum, after all (which is why you didn't need to **** out profanity - we don't give a fuck). But they'll be less inclined to help you.