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Cheating. Is it Ever Ok?
Rugby88
I have Ep1c Calendar kunce
Does the husband now she did this? If not then she should tell him coz hey "its just sex" stupid girl...
No.
We fought endlessly for about 6 months after she got married. He was a good man, in fact, one of the greatest men I have ever known. I insisted she tell him, or I threatened that I would.
The night she went to, she asked me to be there for support - just as she was about to say it, I stopped her and ushered her out of the room.
He was and is so in love with her. Madly, deeply, passionately in love with her. And I realised in that moment, that her confession would have hurt him so deeply, more deeply than was neccessary. And once the words are uttered, there is no taking them back. Not ever. He's too good a man, to feel that kind of unneccessary hell.
Especially when I knew how much she loved him and how she genuinely believed it was 'just sex' and nothing more.
So 15 years later....they're still together and still happy and have 2 beautiful children...and I think maybe keeping quiet and saving him the pain of knowing, was the most generous thing that could have ever been done for him.
She's been a faithful, devoted, loving wife and he's been a brilliant husband and father.
I often find myself in their home, snuggled at both of their feet, laughing or discussing the issues of the world.
They are both the loves of my life.
And eachothers.
And they created my godchildren
I don't believe it was meant to be, any other way.
We fought endlessly for about 6 months after she got married. He was a good man, in fact, one of the greatest men I have ever known. I insisted she tell him, or I threatened that I would.
The night she went to, she asked me to be there for support - just as she was about to say it, I stopped her and ushered her out of the room.
He was and is so in love with her. Madly, deeply, passionately in love with her. And I realised in that moment, that her confession would have hurt him so deeply, more deeply than was neccessary. And once the words are uttered, there is no taking them back. Not ever. He's too good a man, to feel that kind of unneccessary hell.
Especially when I knew how much she loved him and how she genuinely believed it was 'just sex' and nothing more.
So 15 years later....they're still together and still happy and have 2 beautiful children...and I think maybe keeping quiet and saving him the pain of knowing, was the most generous thing that could have ever been done for him.
She's been a faithful, devoted, loving wife and he's been a brilliant husband and father.
I often find myself in their home, snuggled at both of their feet, laughing or discussing the issues of the world.
They are both the loves of my life.
And eachothers.
And they created my godchildren
I don't believe it was meant to be, any other way.
Rugby88
I have Ep1c Calendar kunce
No.
We fought endlessly for about 6 months after she got married. He was a good man, in fact, one of the greatest men I have ever known. I insisted she tell him, or I threatened that I would.
The night she went to, she asked me to be there for support - just as she was about to say it, I stopped her and ushered her out of the room.
He was and is so in love with her. Madly, deeply, passionately in love with her. And I realised in that moment, that her confession would have hurt him so deeply, more deeply than was neccessary. And once the words are uttered, there is no taking them back. Not ever. He's too good a man, to feel that kind of unneccessary hell.
Especially when I knew how much she loved him and how she genuinely believed it was 'just sex' and nothing more.
So 15 years later....they're still together and still happy and have 2 beautiful children...and I think maybe keeping quiet and saving him the pain of knowing, was the most generous thing that could have ever been done for him.
She's been a faithful, devoted, loving wife and he's been a brilliant husband and father.
I often find myself in their home, snuggled at both of their feet, laughing or discussing the issues of the world.
They are both the loves of my life.
And eachothers.
And they created my godchildren
I don't believe it was meant to be, any other way.
She married Chuck Norris?
But really I find that very sad.....and I honestly hope he never finds out NOW coz it would prob kill him...
pistachio
Member
Couldn't agree more. Sometimes ignorance is bliss.
And I'd rather be ignorant of the fact that the person I marry would do something like that. Would completely change how I view the person.
KungFooGoo
Gangster
Yeah if you are going to cheat and it was only once.. Don't tell the person just so you dont feel guilty anymore, fuck you, it was your choice to do it so live with it. No point fucking up your partner just so you dont feel so bad.
I'd personally rather the confess and know.
As Flea said >> "how would you feel if it was you?"
Devante Says >> "After answering the above question honestly live your life"!!!
He is seriously, the greatest man I have ever known.
I gave birth to Sophie, in Canada in the middle of the worst snow storm the country had had, in 32 years. He flew on a red eye flight, from his business commitments in London to JFK in New York, hired a landcruiser and drove for two hours in the worst conditions, just so I had someone with me. And he was the first person, to hold my daughter - she was 12 minutes old
He is an amazingly generous, compassionate and hilarious human being.
Saving him from that heartache, was right.
He often says he is the luckiest man on earth, because he has two wives lol My friend and I.
And when he isn't getting sex enough, he calls me, I go over, I talk with my girlfriend and he admits that their sex life is on fire again, for another few months.
lololol
I love them both. Tremendously.
Was it a shit thing for her to do? Yes. Absolutely. She was young and stupid and made a mistake.
But they have 15 years under their belts of a very happy life together.
I am in no position to judge and it's not something we ever speak about anymore.
They're happy. He's fantastic and she, is most definitely, the luckiest woman on earth.
I gave birth to Sophie, in Canada in the middle of the worst snow storm the country had had, in 32 years. He flew on a red eye flight, from his business commitments in London to JFK in New York, hired a landcruiser and drove for two hours in the worst conditions, just so I had someone with me. And he was the first person, to hold my daughter - she was 12 minutes old
He is an amazingly generous, compassionate and hilarious human being.
Saving him from that heartache, was right.
He often says he is the luckiest man on earth, because he has two wives lol My friend and I.
And when he isn't getting sex enough, he calls me, I go over, I talk with my girlfriend and he admits that their sex life is on fire again, for another few months.
lololol
I love them both. Tremendously.
Was it a shit thing for her to do? Yes. Absolutely. She was young and stupid and made a mistake.
But they have 15 years under their belts of a very happy life together.
I am in no position to judge and it's not something we ever speak about anymore.
They're happy. He's fantastic and she, is most definitely, the luckiest woman on earth.
RyanF
Member
No, cheating is never okay.
No mortal relationship will give you 100% of what you need 100% of the time. If you're very, very lucky, you might end up with someone who gives you 80% of what you need. The people who stay loyal to their spouses understand that nothing is completely perfect, but they honour the person they're with and honour the commitments they have made to that person. The people who cheat, however, treat themselves as entitled to the other 20%. They won't give up 80% for 20%, but they also won't give up 100% for 80% if they can get the other 20% elsewhere.
I don't buy the whole "I cheat on my husband/wife and have lots of/longterm extra-marrital affairs, but I love my husband/wife," claim. The very fact that you are disrespecting and dishonouring your husband/wife with something that is harmful to the relationship, potentially harmful to their health, dishonest, self-centred, and would destroy them emotionally if they knew, says that you are doing everything but loving him/her while cheating.
The end.
No mortal relationship will give you 100% of what you need 100% of the time. If you're very, very lucky, you might end up with someone who gives you 80% of what you need. The people who stay loyal to their spouses understand that nothing is completely perfect, but they honour the person they're with and honour the commitments they have made to that person. The people who cheat, however, treat themselves as entitled to the other 20%. They won't give up 80% for 20%, but they also won't give up 100% for 80% if they can get the other 20% elsewhere.
I don't buy the whole "I cheat on my husband/wife and have lots of/longterm extra-marrital affairs, but I love my husband/wife," claim. The very fact that you are disrespecting and dishonouring your husband/wife with something that is harmful to the relationship, potentially harmful to their health, dishonest, self-centred, and would destroy them emotionally if they knew, says that you are doing everything but loving him/her while cheating.
The end.
CaT_SPeW
extra crispy
good post
PowerBuilder
New member
My fiancée was married when we started ou relationship. The then marriage was in a terrible shape.
I follow a theme of moral relativity. Like abortion, euthanasia and watching reruns of 'I love Lucy', its a matter of the situation. Every situation is unique.
I follow a theme of moral relativity. Like abortion, euthanasia and watching reruns of 'I love Lucy', its a matter of the situation. Every situation is unique.
Rambodian
No I'm not cambodian
PowerBuilder
New member
Is abortion always 'right' or always 'wrong' ?
Is euthanasia always 'right' or always 'wrong' ?
Is saying lies always 'right' or always 'wrong' ?