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Different sexual appetites
gtrb26dett
New member
No because you are wording it wrong. Someone who is not happy in her relationship so wants to find someone that can make her happy. What is wrong with that?
Edited to add if my bf was not happy I would prefer him to break up with me then to cheat on me
gtrb26dett
New member
I give up arguing with you, what skank... she should go out with a player, perfect couple, no dramas, both cheaters, happy times
You don't know this, all you know is that they were incompatible sexually. You are the one who turned the woman into the 'bad guy' by saying she wanted to sleep with other men.
If I was unhappy in a marriage I would leave, if it was because of sex so be it. The women can think I'm a pig, I'm not living to keep them happy.
(I think staying together for the sake of children is retarded, also, but that is another topic.)
gtrb26dett
New member
I agree with you Moons but I don't think your going to change Noobs thinking..
Christian
Active Member, June10MOTM
Have fun
Saying that doesnt make what you said any less retarded, you described the same things...
Thats like me saying if u cant jump up and down 10 times within 1 second your an idiot....
It is not even an argument or point.
Ben
Member
Have you got kids?
I do not.
I don't see why continuing an unhappy/unhealthy relationship is better than going your separate ways and demonstrating happy/healthy ones. Kids are not stupid, they pick up on things.
If kids are the only reason for a relationship being maintained then I would say it's better to end it. Why raise them in an environment with negativity and resentment?
Paullie
New member
Third party edutication:
Dictionary.com definiation of whore:
whore
https://secure.reference.com/sso/login_pop.html?source=favorites/hɔr, hoʊr or, often, hʊər/
Show Spelled [hawr, hohr or, often, hoo
r] Show IPA noun, verb, whored, whor·ing.
–noun 1. a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.
–verb (used without object) 2. to act as a whore.
3. to consort with whores.
–verb (used with object) 4. Obsolete . to make a whore of; corrupt; debauch.
I think the key sentence here is "a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse". The woman in question had not actually had sexual intercourse with any other man besides her husband, therefore she cannot be called a whore.
However, n00bs has a good point in regards to marriage. "For better or for worse", sounds to me like she hasnt accepted the latter. Therefore shes a liar.
Dictionary.com definiation of whore:
whore
https://secure.reference.com/sso/login_pop.html?source=favorites/hɔr, hoʊr or, often, hʊər/
Show Spelled [hawr, hohr or, often, hoo
Show IPA noun, verb, whored, whor·ing. –noun 1. a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.
–verb (used without object) 2. to act as a whore.
3. to consort with whores.
–verb (used with object) 4. Obsolete . to make a whore of; corrupt; debauch.
I think the key sentence here is "a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse". The woman in question had not actually had sexual intercourse with any other man besides her husband, therefore she cannot be called a whore.
However, n00bs has a good point in regards to marriage. "For better or for worse", sounds to me like she hasnt accepted the latter. Therefore shes a liar.
MikeW
Member
n00bs,
You are so far off the mark its not funny. OK, you want the facts, here's the facts...
They've been married for about 10 years and she has never cheated on him once nor wanted to. She is completely in love with this guy and he with her. They share the same dreams and have two kids together who they both adore.
Problem is that when they were dating they used to have sex all the time. She's got a huge sexual appetite, he doesn't. A few years into the marriage and he's gone off sex. Not completely, just not nearly as often as she'd like it. She's talked to him about and tried to do things to get him interested. They've even done counselling about it. For 10 years odd she's been working with him to try and resolve this sexual imbalance. In that time she has never once cheated on him.
After 10 years and with the marriage headed for divorce she threw out the lifeline of considering an open marriage so she could stay with him. Was always a long shot and unsurprisingly something they agreed wouldn't work for them.
She's now moving back to Melbourne and he looks like staying in Brisbane. Shame, they are a beautiful couple with gorgeous kids. But it does go to show what can happen when people are sexually imbalanced. She suffered it for 10 years before deciding to separate. Even now she is debating whether she's done the right thing and is considering getting back together with him because they are just so good together in all other ways.
Don't judge buddy, you're far too quick to pull the trigger.
Cheers,
Mike
You are so far off the mark its not funny. OK, you want the facts, here's the facts...
They've been married for about 10 years and she has never cheated on him once nor wanted to. She is completely in love with this guy and he with her. They share the same dreams and have two kids together who they both adore.
Problem is that when they were dating they used to have sex all the time. She's got a huge sexual appetite, he doesn't. A few years into the marriage and he's gone off sex. Not completely, just not nearly as often as she'd like it. She's talked to him about and tried to do things to get him interested. They've even done counselling about it. For 10 years odd she's been working with him to try and resolve this sexual imbalance. In that time she has never once cheated on him.
After 10 years and with the marriage headed for divorce she threw out the lifeline of considering an open marriage so she could stay with him. Was always a long shot and unsurprisingly something they agreed wouldn't work for them.
She's now moving back to Melbourne and he looks like staying in Brisbane. Shame, they are a beautiful couple with gorgeous kids. But it does go to show what can happen when people are sexually imbalanced. She suffered it for 10 years before deciding to separate. Even now she is debating whether she's done the right thing and is considering getting back together with him because they are just so good together in all other ways.
Don't judge buddy, you're far too quick to pull the trigger.
Cheers,
Mike
Christian
Active Member, June10MOTM
Marriage is more then just sex. They have kids... They love each other...
Yet they got divorced over sex?
Maybe old mate should get his testosterone levels checked.
Either way to break up a long marriage with someone you apparently love and have kids with over sex.
Its idiotic...
Maybe its just a wog thing.
Yet they got divorced over sex?
Maybe old mate should get his testosterone levels checked.
Either way to break up a long marriage with someone you apparently love and have kids with over sex.
Its idiotic...
Maybe its just a wog thing.
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MikeW
Member
n00bs,
I tend to agree with you mate. In fact my wife and I have said that. But when you meet her and talk to her and see just how much mental anguish it is causing you get a feel for just how much she is suffering. We're not in their shoes so we don't judge. But she'll struggle to meet someone as good as him again. He's an amazing Dad and also a very good provider for the family and she is very high maintenance so that's a good match.
He's the Financial Controller for an ASX100 company on about $400,000 per annum. He works crazy hours which is part of the problem but he's been cutting back to spend time with the family. In fact, he just turned down a head hunt into a more senior FC role on more dollars so that he could focus on the family.
She's awesome too, major extravert, full of life, always smiling and effervesant. She's a very girly girl and loves her shoes, handbags, nice clothes etc. They throw huge parties and dote on their kids. Both of them are really close friends of ours.
Really is a shame. My wife and I agreed that this would never happen to us, but again we don't want to judge.
Cheers,
Mike
I tend to agree with you mate. In fact my wife and I have said that. But when you meet her and talk to her and see just how much mental anguish it is causing you get a feel for just how much she is suffering. We're not in their shoes so we don't judge. But she'll struggle to meet someone as good as him again. He's an amazing Dad and also a very good provider for the family and she is very high maintenance so that's a good match.
He's the Financial Controller for an ASX100 company on about $400,000 per annum. He works crazy hours which is part of the problem but he's been cutting back to spend time with the family. In fact, he just turned down a head hunt into a more senior FC role on more dollars so that he could focus on the family.She's awesome too, major extravert, full of life, always smiling and effervesant. She's a very girly girl and loves her shoes, handbags, nice clothes etc. They throw huge parties and dote on their kids. Both of them are really close friends of ours.
Really is a shame. My wife and I agreed that this would never happen to us, but again we don't want to judge.
Cheers,
Mike