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Cheating. Is it Ever Ok?

ae86 said:
she wanted the label as me being her 'boyfriend' but ive only known her for a few weeks so far so im def not jumping into anything! plus she needs to know boundaries of me putting my car and my training as a higher priority before committing to me
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Ohhhhh well, you definitely need to let her know where she stands & what your thoughts are.

Have a chat ;)

Nothing too full on. But know in your head what you want from this before you open your mouth lol
 
oh man shes 6 years older than me and when i speak how i feel she rants like a 12 year old, its pretty weird i dont know how i will approach it.
 
Do you have a commitment to her? Then not really.. She'd still feel let down, but is that really your problem if you're not together
 
canned tuna said:
Cheating means betraying a commitment you have with your partner, right.. so if you're with a committed lady but you are single, you're not cheating, right?
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You aren't cheating on anyone, but as with all things, apply the asshole test.

Does sleeping with someone, whom you know is in a committed relationship, make you an asshole?

I would say yes, which means find someone else to play with.
 
lol, guess i didnt have to run bella she kinda made the decision for me a few hours ago, time to get ready for night big night out yeahhhhhhhhh buddy
 
ae86 said:
lol, guess i didnt have to run bella she kinda made the decision for me a few hours ago, time to get ready for night big night out yeahhhhhhhhh buddy
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Awww well I gotta say, if you can't even have a civil conversation at the beginning of your love fest - it aint ever going to end well honey! :eek:

Because let me tell you, when the lust ebbs away and life throws up some corkers for you....all you have left to cling to, is eachother....and if you can't have a conversation, talk it out, find comfort in one another....you got nothin.

That was wise old Bella speaking....now please go forth..........and have a good time :D

Report back, because I live vicariously through your wanton ways! lol
 
not ok to cheat. cheated on boyfriends as a slapper of a teenager, never in a serious relationship.

that said, i flirt like a whore, thoroughly enjoy objectifying the shit out of hot dudes and lurk porn every now and again.
 
Ok back to Bella's question

If this was a mate of mine I'd say wake up to yourself there are plenty of unmarried women out there. Chasing a married woman who lives interstate must be one of the most desperate things I've ever heard. In saying that some of the things you say lead me believe that this bloke is a chick, although hopefully it is not you considering what I said above.
Although the real villain here is the woman, as I can bet she has been complaining to your friend about her current husband and playing the pity card. If she is unhappy than just leave him as looking for the next best thing while still married is a dog act. Even if she does jump the fence and go with your friend 90% of the time the grass in no greener.
 
Relevant said:
Ok back to Bella's question

If this was a mate of mine I'd say wake up to yourself there are plenty of unmarried women out there. Chasing a married woman who lives interstate must be one of the most desperate things I've ever heard. In saying that some of the things you say lead me believe that this bloke is a chick, although hopefully it is not you considering what I said above.
Although the real villain here is the woman, as I can bet she has been complaining to your friend about her current husband and playing the pity card. If she is unhappy than just leave him as looking for the next best thing while still married is a dog act. Even if she does jump the fence and go with your friend 90% of the time the grass in no greener.
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lol

Thanks Relevant! Man this is the thread that keeps on giving isn't it? lol

He went to see her last weekend actually, so he's done it already :eek:

He came home more resolved than ever, that he wants this woman. I didn't ask questions, or for details. No idea if they slept together or not, one can only assume :cool:

Haven't had a proper chance to pick his brain yet, but next weekend I will! lol

Bella doesn't do relationships on the internetz :eek:

I need & like reality too much I'm afraid ;)

Be interesting to hear what he says though. Will update this one when I know more.

:p
 
It's never cheating when you're in a different area code, not to mention a different state.


If you were sleeping with two girls at the same time, it- it wouldn't be cheating because they would cancel each other out.

It's not cheating if you spread peanut butter on your balls and let your dog lick it off. -- Because it's your dog.
 
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