Fadi
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That's because your listening to the wrong advice about how to go about it
I hope this doesn't come as a shock Derka, but there is more than just one right advice. Even the same bodybuilder would have to apply different tactics as the years go by since that bodybuilder today is not the same bodybuilder he was the year before. The proof is all around us with bodybuilders who go on stage razor sharp one year and smooth at other times (in the same competition).
If you disagree with what I've written above, then please tell us all here what is the right advice as you understand it Sir, perchance we may all learn something new.
Fadi.