BoyFromAus
New member
sup folks,
I need some advice from the players and pimps here (like Ceffo) on how to hook up with women at clubs. Any help is much appreciated.. particularly on how to open a convo, read signals and the type of swagger to use. I guess this is a bit of a vent session as well and a self evaluation.
Bit of my history. When I was fat and ugly, my swagger was the 'down to earth fat, nice guy' swagger. Women would smile (or laugh) at me. I could comfortably start a convo with chicks in a club, make them laugh and think i'm friendly. Ok ok.. they just thought i was a teddy bear. None the less, back then I had a gf and was never able to do anything with club girls.
But now, although I'm no Markos or Fadi, i'm in best condition ive ever been in my life... stronger, muuuch Leaner, more vascular, much better sculpted (went from lard to hard)... and in my humble opinion, better looking than most those alcoholic dudes last night.
so anyway, I hit the dancefloor after the game and it was so different compared to the last time i went clubbing (over a year ago). I was just dancing on my own in a corner less crowded spot. There were women who would look at me, dance near me and get closer. But when I looked back or turned their way, they'd look away and pretend i wasn't even there. It happened several times and then I was sitting at the table for a bit.. and this chick comes and sits in the seat next to me (although there were other empty seats) but she wasn't making any eye contact or anything.. once again, like i wasn't there, she just sat.
I had no idea on what to do because i had no idea what it all meant.. was i missing clear signals ? or were chicks just being themselves and I just had the illusion that they were digging me.
None the less, I could've responded, just didn't know how.
So yea, please.. any advice is much appreciated on how to reciprocate.
I need some advice from the players and pimps here (like Ceffo) on how to hook up with women at clubs. Any help is much appreciated.. particularly on how to open a convo, read signals and the type of swagger to use. I guess this is a bit of a vent session as well and a self evaluation.
Bit of my history. When I was fat and ugly, my swagger was the 'down to earth fat, nice guy' swagger. Women would smile (or laugh) at me. I could comfortably start a convo with chicks in a club, make them laugh and think i'm friendly. Ok ok.. they just thought i was a teddy bear. None the less, back then I had a gf and was never able to do anything with club girls.
But now, although I'm no Markos or Fadi, i'm in best condition ive ever been in my life... stronger, muuuch Leaner, more vascular, much better sculpted (went from lard to hard)... and in my humble opinion, better looking than most those alcoholic dudes last night.
so anyway, I hit the dancefloor after the game and it was so different compared to the last time i went clubbing (over a year ago). I was just dancing on my own in a corner less crowded spot. There were women who would look at me, dance near me and get closer. But when I looked back or turned their way, they'd look away and pretend i wasn't even there. It happened several times and then I was sitting at the table for a bit.. and this chick comes and sits in the seat next to me (although there were other empty seats) but she wasn't making any eye contact or anything.. once again, like i wasn't there, she just sat.
I had no idea on what to do because i had no idea what it all meant.. was i missing clear signals ? or were chicks just being themselves and I just had the illusion that they were digging me.
None the less, I could've responded, just didn't know how.
So yea, please.. any advice is much appreciated on how to reciprocate.