Sticky
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I got fat because i ate crap and i was lazy. Then when i realised i was chubby it made me upset. Depressed because you are fat > fat because you are depressed. It's a cycle. I have tried anti-depressants and they didn't work for me. I've tried fat pills, shakes, calorie counting, fasting, soup diets, juice diets, detox diets.
The only thing i haven't tried is focusing on the exercise instead of the food. The last diet i did was a shake diet where exercise isn't necessary. It worked the best out of anything i have done, but i couldn't maintain that lifestyle of eating food i hate.
The times i have exercised i hated it so much but felt pleased with myself afterwards. I think it could lift my mood if i committed to it.
I am absolutely defeated and if i don't make it work this time, i'll be cashing out my superannuation and getting a lapband. (It's impossible to get your super money out - but there is a clause about being able to get it out for lapband surgery - you can even get out your husbands super for the surgery).
I figure i have nothing to lose and everything to gain if i can try one last time, with all things included equally, exercise and diet. Sorry if i sound like an idiot, i know it's all my fault i'm so fat.
Thanks for all the replies and advice.
I won't go to a gym or personal trainer because i'm too shy and embarrassed. I've got to do it at home.
This is a good site i'm going to read the girls section some more.
You need to foucus on the diet first not the excercise. Several people have already said this.
Look at the last few pages of the members pics thread, BigJims transformation is almost unbelievable. 33odd KG's in under 6 months is an awesome loss, and like he said, all he did was change his diet and lift weights.
In your next reply, type in EVERYTHING you ate and drank today.
You say your nutritionist wrote you a 7 day meal plan, what is it? how long did you follow it for?
Getting your super (or your partners) out for lap band surgury is ludicrus, sorry but it is. In MOST cases, losing (or gaining) weight is a matter of controlling what goes into that mouth.