Far-ken-jee-zus!!!!!
stop thinking, your not here to win the mr nice guy of year comp, she's your first iron in the fire.
to get on a roll, you need a least 6 or 7 in the fire at any given day, start rounding them up, come back to her when you've mustered a few and it will all make sense. You cannot try to understand by just the one date, need the numbers to make a comparison.
Hook up with another 7 or 8 and you will not need to these sort of questions.
And, PLEASE, have a shot of test and do not watch Titanic.