Break ups

Oh Bro, what are you doing to yourself, rule one, he who hesitates masturbates.
When you say you should have kissed her on the cheek, you should have fukta.
Get yourself a shot of test and get on with it, you fucked this one up.

Brick said:

Man you have some issues with taking control, when she touched you on the leg it was her way of saying I'm moist here bend me over and fuck me big boy.

For a chick to do that takes soo much forethought, this isn't a man that absentmindedly gropes at a boob. A woman deliberates the touch on the leg all night before making that move.

You have a lot to learn about women my man.
@Grunta ; @Undercover ; please school this guy ASAP before he gets fucked over by another female

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I see it a different way - a women could touch your leg but simply just be doing it to hook you in abit (mind games), or simply just being nice - I would never ever read into this sort of thing - until your hooking up and honestly until something is inside her your never 100% certin of what they are thinking, or why they are doing it.

As I said dont over-think things - yea she touched your leg, murh who cares.

Dont send her another message unless she replies - if she hasnt replied in maybe a week - send her something totally random - like "Do you think Unicorns are real" - nothing else, nothing more - if she replies back and is like "haha Wtf" simply reply back - "lets go out on friday" - be direct and straight to the point - if she doesnt reply then who cares - if she replies back and says shes busy - dont reply and if she replies back and says sure - again be direct and say "ok i'll pick you up at 730pm" - thats it.

Women like you to take control and be interested but MOST hate when your overly in their face and your making them feel like your trying to control them - always play their game.

Brick, when I dropped her home... I kissed her on the cheek then went in for the mouth and it was like kissing a mannequin. She didn't kiss me back man so obviously there was something between touching the leg and the half hour later when I dropped her home. Could she have changed her mind that quickly?

And I can go back to the dating app to message her but we've made the move to whatsapp and it appears as though I've been blocked now, but not 100% sure.

Best be moving onto the next. I messaged her yesterday afternoon and if she was keen for a second catch up, she would have replied by now.

I'm inclined to agree with rugby. Could just be a kind gesture.

Take things for how they come at the moment - I know it some respect when getting out of a relationship you want something there because your used to having someone but on the other hand you have to force yourself to enjoy being by yourself and doing your own thing, in time you will love doing your own thing, hanging with mates etc - this is a tough, fine line to deal with and of course takes time.

I guess from my other posts just be light - never ever put presure on things because they break quickly.

If you have been blocked then so be it - who cares - if not and you dont hear from her I would still send her something random in a weeks time - lets be honest you could catch her at the right time and some how get a blowjob out of it - hey a bj is better than no bj.

Think of things/girls when your single as -

Leads - A girl your have just met, just added on fb, a dating site, someone you have made contact with

The you need to qualify the lead - is this going anywhere? Do they want to meet up? Are they interesting? Are they worth my tie?

Opportunities - A girl you have been chatting with on a reg basis, a girl you have gone on a date with, a girl you have maybe hooked up with (not fucked), a girl possibly who could be something more than a fuck

Closed/Lost - A girl you have gone on dates with, maybe hooked up with (kissed etc) but the Opp has just gone cold, no replies, or very "cold" replies - these need to be shut down fast to closed lost stage - within a week of cold replies or no contact.

Closed/Won - Someone you have fucked (this could be multi times - still of course at closed/won stage) , or of course someone you are in a relationship with

This current girl is a very weak opportunity/very close to Closed/Lost stage - still maybe worth a little more time in trying to convert to closed/won stage - but really a matter of 1 or 2 texts before going to Closed/Lost stage and no more contact/or fuck is given. Currently at the wait and see - then radom text is sent.

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everyone deals with things differently i wouldnt follow any of the advice here if you dont think its whats right for you.
for me, the whole banging loads of chicks just made it harder to get over who i lost

"He who hesitates masturbates" Christ, I'm taking notes now whenever Brick or Grunta give advice about women

Find a girl you like, hook up then start playing around. Nothing beats the rush and makes sex better then being a cheating ćunt.

Find one then come back for some advice.

Let's be honest: something went down in this gerlZ mind between touching my leg and saying she was really happy I came to meet her (this was at 11;45/50) and when I dropped her home about 20-30 mins later. It could have been any number of things:

1. My car smelled of protein shake
2. The stereo came on when I turned the car on and was blasting hip hop or whatever was on my iPhone
3. The conversation on the way home wasn't as 'smooth' as at the bar
4. She just changed her mind for no reason at all (unlikely)

I'm sure going in for a sneaky kiss I the lips didn't help her impression of me, especially when she was friendly enough to give me a kiss on the cheek and hug when we first met (well, we could have shaken hands). I wasn't expecting the hug.

Let me also mention here that her dad was a bit of a mongrel. She has a half brother and half sister as a result of her father playing around, so it's quite possible she already has a preconceived notion that men are pigs.... and I've done nothing to quash that belief by being a sleaze bag, going in for the kiss after a first meeting (it wasn't even a date)

5. She is a friget bitch and not worth barring up for.

Undercover, I respect your opinion mate but I just can't do something like that. I cheated on my ex wife (with two different women on separate occassions) and just felt like a piece of crap for doing so. I'll never do that again. For me, monogamy means monogamy.

jmc123 said:

Undercover, I respect your opinion mate but I just can't do something like that. I cheated on my ex wife (with two different women on separate occassions) and just felt like a piece of crap for doing so. I'll never do that again. For me, monogamy means monogamy.

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Fair enough, I guess I was just trying to illustrate the point of not putting all your eggs in one basket at the moment.

jmc123 said:

Let's be honest: something went down in this gerlZ mind between touching my leg and saying she was really happy I came to meet her (this was at 11;45/50) and when I dropped her home about 20-30 mins later. It could have been any number of things:

1. My car smelled of protein shake
2. The stereo came on when I turned the car on and was blasting hip hop or whatever was on my iPhone
3. The conversation on the way home wasn't as 'smooth' as at the bar
4. She just changed her mind for no reason at all (unlikely)

I'm sure going in for a sneaky kiss I the lips didn't help her impression of me, especially when she was friendly enough to give me a kiss on the cheek and hug when we first met (well, we could have shaken hands). I wasn't expecting the hug.

Let me also mention here that her dad was a bit of a mongrel. She has a half brother and half sister as a result of her father playing around, so it's quite possible she already has a preconceived notion that men are pigs.... and I've done nothing to quash that belief by being a sleaze bag, going in for the kiss after a first meeting (it wasn't even a date)

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Chick with a scumbag dad, how did you not fuck her? she probably could just tell ur heart broken over someone else, never a big turn on for chicks. aend her number to [MENTION=12395]Grunta[/MENTION];

Well, unless she had fucken telepathic powers i don't know how she would know that. She smiled, giggled and did that thing chicks do when they turn their head to the side. All the positive cues seemed to be there. Maybe she has histrionic personality disorder. Or maybe like I said, she just changed her fckin mind at the last minute. Strangely she sent me a text about 5 mins after I got back to mine and said how nice it was meeting me and I'm better in person than on the web. Signed with a X. So WTF. and after suggesting we could catch up again she was like "happy to hang out again when you're free??". (When a girl says 'hang out' that to me says 'friendZone'

Why should a girl with a scumbag dad be keen for penor? What does one thing have to do with the other? Aware me.

do you not have much experience with women?
[MENTION=12395]Grunta[/MENTION]; [MENTION=10061]Brick[/MENTION]; [MENTION=12407]Undercover[/MENTION]; please explain daddy issues to this chap..

Genics said:

do you not have much experience with women?
[MENTION=12395]Grunta[/MENTION]; [MENTION=10061]Brick[/MENTION]; [MENTION=12407]Undercover[/MENTION]; please explain daddy issues to this chap..

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Fuck I just read the last couple posts, this blokes beyond help.

She was handed up to him on a platter and he still fucked it up.

The only way he could possibly have been in a better position to get some pussy was if he was in a brothel with a fat tax return and a gut full of cialis

Yes. Please explain. If a girl has daddy issues (especially if dad was a philanderer) I would have thought that would make then suspicious of all men to begin with??

Well, clearly i fucked it up. The question Brick mate is how???