this, you need to take the time to find the most efficient way for you to lift (this will include lifting heavy to find where you are breaking down so you will make gains in the process), who cares if it means you make small gains for 6 months, but when you start programing to make gains over time you will become a much better lifter than someone who doesnt thinks that simply getting stronger with average technique is that only way
Lol. Sticky seemed to get those new lifters of his to 100kg in a couple of months while you spent that whole time blaming falling out of the groove for all your lift failures.