I went to the YMCA today, it was interesting. There were two people interviewing me, one the manager, the other a membership services officer, she was interested but seemed unconfident about the process, I think she might have just been grabbed by the manager, "We're supposed to have two people interview."
Apparently they work with disabled kids a fair bit, he asked how I felt about that.
"Doesn't worry me. I see it this way: any official medical condition is just an extreme version of what any of us might have day-to-day. Like a Down's kid, what are their issues? They have difficulty understanding things, have difficulty concentrating on tasks, and have trouble with social boundaries. Well, all of us at times have difficulty understanding things, or have some stuff we just never get, we all sometimes have difficulty concentrating, and sometimes we mess up social boundaries.
"And then there's functional and structural increased kyphosis, and so on. A medical condition is usually just an extreme version of an everyday condition. They're just people, they're not their condition, they're people. And each person has their capabilities and goals, you work with them with those in mind."
They seemed to like that. "That's a good way of putting it." They went through a list of questions.
"Some of these," he said, "are a bit technical, I don't expect you to know the answers to them all, this is just to get an idea where you are."
"Rightyo."
"What are the major muscles involved in the squat? I don't mean the stabilisers and that, just the major movers."
"Gluteus maximus, hamstrings, quadriceps. And in sumo squats, gluteus medius."
"And what are the muscles of the hamstrings?"
"Biceps femoris, semitendinosus, semimembranosus."
Etc, like that.
That they ask such questions tells me that some people can't answer correctly. They wouldn't bother asking questions everyone gets right. For this reason, and their generally friendly and "that's a good way to put it" reactions, I expect to be one of those they choose for a practical session.
They asked me the usual questions about strengths and weaknesses and all that. I said, "In two years I see myself potty-training my kid. Just got married in December. But for paid work, well - like I said to Arthur the other day, I'd like to have a waiting list of clients."
"Here, or self-employed?"
"Here. Self-employed you have to concentrate on sales and GST paperwork. I'd rather focus on the clients."
I said I saw my strengths as empathy and being able to explain things simply, and a weakness was that I could never just answer a question, I always had to tell it as a story. Which may not come as a surprise to any of you
