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Swinging Lifestyle / Open Relationships

Big Mick

Big Mick

"2014 - Kunce of the year"
Has anyone had any experience with this, either good or bad?

Has anyone been approached by anyone or been put in strange situations?

Has anyone considered it?

Has anyone beens asked by their partner??

Is anyone into it with their wife or GF??

This could also include three somes, which I believe in some way relate to swinging I guess.

Just want to hear some members experiences and thoughts as I had a recent strange experience that I may share later:eek:
 
My offsider at work is a swinger. She is nothing to look at, neither is her husband but they are quite involved in the lifestyle and have a happy loving relationship. Could work for some......
 
Interesting, does she admit to it freely and let it be known??

Has she ever approached you??

Approximate age would be of interest as I believe most swingers are 'old' and over weight ie late 40's and in their 50's, not sure why, but I have never seen any hot 24 year old swingers...
 
Oh well you gotta spill it now Mick! lolol

One of my best gf's (age 26) and her hubby (age 34) swing. Desperately in love, happy relationship - they just like seeing eachother screw other people. They have 'safe words' and they only progress if they both want in on the action. If one wants out part way through, they have words for that too.

I used to love listening to their stories, they made me laugh so much. They have 'regulars' who they see now, 2 couples who they swing with all the time. But they've had some hysterical meet up's and a few good quality 'fisting' stories that had me crying, I was laughing so hard :D

Threesomes, I think, are a different beast entirely. Swinging only works if both partners are comfortable and in agreement and they have to love and respect one another completely.

Personally, I don't think I could watch the man I love, smashing another woman. I would be rage filled that my penis has parked itself elsewhere! :p

But hey, that's me.

Everybody's different ;)

Spill it!
 
Cool, so what is the inherit difference between swinging and a threesome??

Does swinging alway involve two couples swapping or could swinging relate to a couple involving a third party on a regular (or not regular)basis, for example where hubby/BF shares his wife with various men or vice versa??

I am a bit of a retard with this stuff, and don't really know much about it and did not really realise it went on in real life rather than just in internet porn.
 
Big Mick said:
Interesting, does she admit to it freely and let it be known??
** Its definately not a secret, my ears have burned from details.

Has she ever approached you??
**Hell no. This would be sexual harrassment. ie workplace.

Approximate age would be of interest as I believe most swingers are 'old' and over weight ie late 40's and in their 50's, not sure why, but I have never seen any hot 24 year old swingers...
**Both in the late 30's, no kids, he's an interstate truck driver
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From what I understand, they meet another couple and set boundaries.
Its done in the open.
This is all I care to know..... :p
 
It wouldnt be cheating because both people in the relationship will know about the other...... I dont think they will be sipping cups of tea in a seperate room.
 
Big Mick said:
Cool, so what is the inherit difference between swinging and a threesome??

Does swinging alway involve two couples swapping or could swinging relate to a couple involving a third party on a regular (or not regular)basis, for example where hubby/BF shares his wife with various men or vice versa??

I am a bit of a retard with this stuff, and don't really know much about it and did not really realise it went on in real life rather than just in internet porn.
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Well it depends on the couple Mick? And what their agreement together is?

There are certainly swingers out there who would be happy to welcome a single guy or girl into their midst on a one-off or regular basis? Typically the hubby is bi-curious and/or REALLY gets off on watching wifey cop it, from someone else?

OR Vise versa.

But my friends who swing, don't want one extra person, they swing only and exclusively with other couples.

Even at Swingers Parties, if you're a single gal, you get in free. If you're a single man, you pay and entry is dependant on numbers, it's an exclusive little club to get into if you're a single guy. That being said, it's always cheaper to attend if you take a woman with you, whether she's your partner or not lol

I have a male friend, who used to frequent swingers parties to get some cheap thrills. The women were out of shape, middle aged bags - I seem to recall he even told a story about a 70yo with a clitoral piercing once! :eek:

lolol

But he used to BEG me to go with him, so it made it easier and cheaper for him to get in. Even in the swinging world, a single man, or man attending on his own, is seen as predatory.....so it aint easy.
 
As an aside, for those interested - my friends have a 'date' with a potential couple first and as far as I know, this is typical behaviour in the swinging world. They meet, they have a 'date' like dinner, or discussion over drinks and get to know one another, see if they're on the same page and looking for the same things.

IF they like eachother, and only IF...they proceed to discuss rules and boundaries if they were to progress.

My friends never sleep with another couple on the 'date' night, they've made a rule to 'date', go home and discuss and then proceed, if that's what they choose to do, together.

It's an art form, that's fo sho.
 
Darkoz said:
It's OK to get arse fucked in front of me but don't you dare cheat on me
Makes sense :rolleyes:
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Cheating would be breaking the rules since the rules in a relationship generally include faithfulness. If different rules are agreed upon, then so be it. And hey, some people like to watch.

Each to their own I say.

No thanks, though :)
 
Bella said:
As an aside, for those interested - my friends have a 'date' with a potential couple first and as far as I know, this is typical behaviour in the swinging world. They meet, they have a 'date' like dinner, or discussion over drinks and get to know one another, see if they're on the same page and looking for the same things.

IF they like eachother, and only IF...they proceed to discuss rules and boundaries if they were to progress.

My friends never sleep with another couple on the 'date' night, they've made a rule to 'date', go home and discuss and then proceed, if that's what they choose to do, together.

It's an art form, that's fo sho.
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Sounds complicated and clinical to me.
 
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