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Cheating. Is it Ever Ok?
Errrr....you probably could've started a new thread entirely for that one!
lol
epic posting spree is epic Jamesy! Bellaisproud/10
KungFooGoo
Gangster
Women are filthy creatures.
mocha
New member
your mother is a woman, have some respect
KungFooGoo
Gangster
Oh lordy, lol.
RyanF
Member
Oh man, I haven't seen that movie in years. But some things, you just never forget.
...Like the use of three fingers.
Darkoz
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No way!?
<ULTRA-MEGA>
F.U.B.A.R.
no its not ok.
get cheated on and you'll get your answer.
get cheated on and you'll get your answer.
Big Mick
"2014 - Kunce of the year"
People are very black and white, but the world has many shades of grey.
Caught up with an old mate today, he has recently left his wife, in the discussion about what happened he revealed that he has not had sex for well over three years while he was with her......personally I think cheating would have been fine in that instance, actually I would say it would almost be needed to stop him going insane
Caught up with an old mate today, he has recently left his wife, in the discussion about what happened he revealed that he has not had sex for well over three years while he was with her......personally I think cheating would have been fine in that instance, actually I would say it would almost be needed to stop him going insane
Rambodian
No I'm not cambodian
In today's society it is not 'The Law' to be in a monogamous relationship. It baffles me as to why allot of people would create a monogamous relationship if they actually didn't want to be in one. JUST WHY? 
It's only cheating if your in a monogamous relationship, and I think allot of unnecessary heart break could be avoided if people stopped creating monogamous relationships and just decided that an open relationship would be more suited to them. Creating relationships based around the wants of both parties allows the people involved to be happy to have sex with whoever they want without being cheaters or hurting someones feelings.
I am personally a monogamous person, and chose another who is the same, however if I wasn't monogamous I would not start a monogamous relationship.
Can a 'NON' monogamous relationship work long term? Personally, I am yet to see it. But it seems it has not really been adopted by society as another way to have a relationship, so until it is more common how can one say if it will work long term or not.
Never ceases to amaze me how people always seam to do the things they apparently don't want to do. Even in their own personal sexual relationships, if you don't want to have sex with the same person for the rest of your life at least let that other person know from the start so a healthy relationship can ensue.
Cheating is never OK, it's delusional to think it is, but it's only cheating if you are a coward and not honest with the person you are with. If they are OK with open sexual relations, than it's not 'cheating' is it.
It's only cheating if your in a monogamous relationship, and I think allot of unnecessary heart break could be avoided if people stopped creating monogamous relationships and just decided that an open relationship would be more suited to them. Creating relationships based around the wants of both parties allows the people involved to be happy to have sex with whoever they want without being cheaters or hurting someones feelings.
I am personally a monogamous person, and chose another who is the same, however if I wasn't monogamous I would not start a monogamous relationship.
Can a 'NON' monogamous relationship work long term? Personally, I am yet to see it. But it seems it has not really been adopted by society as another way to have a relationship, so until it is more common how can one say if it will work long term or not.
Never ceases to amaze me how people always seam to do the things they apparently don't want to do. Even in their own personal sexual relationships, if you don't want to have sex with the same person for the rest of your life at least let that other person know from the start so a healthy relationship can ensue.
Cheating is never OK, it's delusional to think it is, but it's only cheating if you are a coward and not honest with the person you are with. If they are OK with open sexual relations, than it's not 'cheating' is it.
Rambodian
No I'm not cambodian
It still doesn't constitute a right to betray the one he loved. I think your mate was in a broken relationship and had basically 2 choices.
1. Fix it
2. Leave it
Sometimes things are not worth fixing, sometimes they are. I'm not pretending to have all the answers, your mate made his choice.
Rambodian
No I'm not cambodian
Yeh that's a pretty bad situation big M, I hope I never have to make such a decision. Can imagine he was pretty torn up over the whole ordeal, fwaaark. Still, I think he did the right thing by leaving instead of cheating, at least he maintained his integrity, morality and somewhat appreciation of the fact they were together for so long.
To me there is something admirable about that.
RyanF
Member
Seems he didn't have a lot of good options:
- Stay married to someone who refuses to treat him like a husband or act like his wife.
- Divorce her.
- Cheat on her.
Gotta be a tough situation.
Hmm I watched a program where a middle aged married man, was informed by various members of his community that his wife (who was very active within the church) was having an affair with their local priest.
Hubby loaded up his gun, drove around to the priests quarters, knowing his wife was scheduled on that afternoon and had their two children with her and shot both his wife and the priest in the head, execution style, in front of his two small children...
As it turns out.....
Wife wasn't cheating at all and the priest was innocent also
A pissed off church worker, started the rumour......
farrrrk
Hubby loaded up his gun, drove around to the priests quarters, knowing his wife was scheduled on that afternoon and had their two children with her and shot both his wife and the priest in the head, execution style, in front of his two small children...
As it turns out.....
Wife wasn't cheating at all and the priest was innocent also
A pissed off church worker, started the rumour......
farrrrk
KungFooGoo
Gangster
She was cheating for sure.... Nobody's innocent.
lol
Jaded much KFG? mwahaha
they proved that the wife was not cheating and the priest was innocent. A disgruntled church go'er admitted to fabricating the story to cause tension within the church community.
Man, sometimes.....just sometimes....these devoutly religious people just are so......far from what would or could be considered 'godly', let alone 'kind'.
fark me.