I dunno,
once you hit 30 the desire to bang everything in sight isn't attractive anymore, standards are raised and quality over quantity is crucial. No overstretched, depreciated fannies thanks. The half your age + 6 rule is magic and I go for that as a general rule of thumb. If no success then I'll edge even lower without looking like a toolie.. of course my last resort is a coin slot peeping booth or paid happy ending which unfortunately has been the way 3 out of the last 5 times lol. I just tell myself to never mind, as the end result is the same!