Who is over 30 and still making good advances in strength
I'm nearly 43. I restarted training nearly 2 years ago. In that time my bench 1RM has moved from 80kg to 150. In recent months I've started to deadlift, and my working sets have moved from 90kg to 140.
what advice could you give to the younger members on AUSBB?
The older I get, the less qualified I feel to give advice. I can only relay my personal experiences.
Giving up weights is not the end of life itself
I took a full decade off from the gym in my 30's - knees were hurting, engineering career kicked into high gear, kids, wife. Especially the wife...
There's a lot of stresses in marriage when the kids come along. My wife gave up a hard-won career to raise them; the frustration and resentment are always in the background. I've always worked long hours and I would not be married still if I had kept going to the gym in that period. Working out was just one of many hobbies that came to be regarded as selfish indulgences during that period.
Depression is not some fairy-tale suffered by pussies
Or maybe it is and I'm a pussy. But I know a reasonable number of smart overachievers doing planetary-scale things in their careers who have had it or still got it. Late 30's & early 40s is the peak of the curve, I believe. Enough pressure over a long enough period of time can suck the happiness out of life. I wouldn't necessarily credit the gym with pulling me out of a mild depression (pretty sure the SSRI's did that) but seeing those weights go up from month to month was like something falling into place that I hadn't realised was missing.
Ego will quite naturally take a back step
Statistically, you'll probably be married and who needs to be ripped all the time when you're married? Not me (not that I ever was). You may find yourself focussing on strength, (a) so your training has a point, and (b) cos it's OK to carry some lard when you're training for strength. And (c) old, strong bastards are cool.
As we age, one workout will never make you, but, one workout can certainly break you."
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I love this quote. Mobility and injury-prevention is now a part of my thinking like it never was in my 20's. But injuries sneak in from any direction, never where you're expecting them. I'm still hungry to lift heavier but I can feel the biological clock ticking - the one that says "you've reached your peak strength, no matter how much you try you'll never be stronger than you are now...".
I wish somebody older than me could tell me how they cope with that realisation. Where do you get your motivation from when your weights start going down in line with your age?