safe cowarding is the only way to go
The choice is ultimately up to you! <-not just
aimed at Kindred.
Live with the frustration or break through it so that you
can spend that 'energy' on something more positive!
This is the paradox I'm dealing with as well... if you are
scared/fear/ something someone how do you overcome
it!??? hummm...

Kindred you are not alone!
Devante.