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Jesper
Knowledge of self provides self-empowerment....
Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Sydney, Australia
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Introduction to tantra - part 3
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Next I will expand on what it means to be a superior man, how to find your higher purpose, and to embrace freedom in all aspects of your life.
I feel it is time for part 3 of my tantra thread
. In this thread I will discuss higher purpose and freedom, and what this means exactly.
You may ask what higher purpose and freedom has to do with tantra? Isn't tantra about great sex, full body orgasms, multiple orgasms, dry orgasms and the like?
Tantra is about divine union between people with a feminine and masculine essence. To embrace tantric techniques we need to connect deeply with our partner, sexually and energetically. The energetic connection comes first; this is where we connect with our heart to our partner and fully trust and surrender. This is a pre-requisite for a tantric experience
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For the feminine to surrender to the masculine she needs to trust her man. She needs to trust his integrity and purpose, and that he is living and embodying his higher truth.
My question to the guys reading this is; do you live your higher truth? Do you know what your higher truth is? Do you know your purpose, the real reason for you being here?
A man is lost without knowing this. If you love spending a few hours most evenings in front of the TV, or regularly spending a few hours with the boys at the pub getting drunk, you have lost sight of the gifts you are here to share with your woman and the world.
If your woman nags you about this, it is because she can feel your lack of integrity, your lack of authenticity. She wants you to know your purpose, she wants you to live it. If you don't she will test you, constantly and remorselessly. Women that embrace their femininity will do this. It is their gift to us. To tell us when we live without integrity and authenticity. Because if we live without integrity we cannot be trusted, and our woman will constantly remind us of this.
So how can you find your higher truth? Find a place where you can be still, without distractions, no people coming in or out, and no phones ringing.
Close your eyes. Become aware of your breath. Breath deeply into your chest and belly. Drop all thoughts. Just be aware of your breath. Feel your breath fill yoru body. Do this for 5 mins.
Imagine you can become anything you like. Anything at all. You have just been given a blank reality cheque. You can write anything you like on this cheque. You can create any reality you want for yourself.
What do you want more than anything else? Who would you be if you could be anything you wanted? What would your gifts and skills be? What would you do? What is this picture or dream you have of yourself, the dream that makes your heart jump with joy?
Write down what this is. Print it out and put it on the fridge or other places you frequently come in contact with. Start talking to people, as if the transformation is already taking place. BY DOING THIS THE TRANSFORMATION IS TAKING PLACE. You start creating it this way. This is how manifestation works!
Make a couple of new choices in your life that takes you closer to this highest vision and dream you have of yourself. If you need training, book into a course. If you want to write a book, start writing. Whatever it is, do it now. Do it now. NOW NOW NOW! Don't wait. There is nothing to wait for.
Don't worry about what this dream is. It can be small or it can be large. It does not matter. Start dreaming, and start making new choices. And make these choices with integrity, with intention to change something in your life that currently does not serve you.
This is the beginning of becoming a superior man. A man that understands his purpose, and embraces this purpose with integrity and authenticity, changes his frequency in the world. He starts to radiate charisma as he starts to live his heart dream. People around him will start to look at him differently, men and women. A man that lives his higher truth and purpose attracts others and serves as an inspiration.
Women trust men like this. This is a man who a woman with a feminine essence can open her heart fully to and surrender into love. This is the pre-requisite for a deep divine sexual tantric union.