You just haven't met an alpha worthy of your affection yet.
Hi I'm brick...................
Sorry but need more details.
How old are you?? How old is he?? How long you been together?? How old are the kids?? Do you both work?? Do you both work doing house chores?? Any financial stress or other issues?? Are you intimate together? Who initiates??
Sorry some of these might be a bit personal but hard to make an assessment without knowing at least the basics?
I'm gonna serious here for a minute. When your husband says your not affectionate enough it is a polite way of saying you aren't intimate enough.
Fucks>Hugs
Sex him up everyday or every other day for a month and report back. My guess is hostility/animosity will have disappeared.
He tells me that's not what he wants. Who knows, he is probably saying one thing and meaning another.
He tells me that's not what he wants. Who knows, he is probably saying one thing and meaning another.
Fair call..makes sense.
I'm 33. He is 42.
Together for 7 years with a 5, 4 and 2 year old.
We both are full time shift workers - working opposite hours, so when the family is all together we find me and him clash doing the day to day stuff sometimes but it's usually in biggy. Yep, we both do the household chores 50/50 pretty much.
No financial stress. Only other stress we may have is that he is a snorer and I'm a very light sleeper. We haven't shared a bed for a long time.
We are intimate - but again hardly seeing each other makes it rare, 60% of the time he will initiate.
I am no expert, but it appears to be not too bad, shift work can be a killer, (I do shift work as well), and it's worse if both partners do it.
May be the lack of time seeing each other is not enough for him, may be you are just not compatible, three kids does not help, I have two and they are time killers in a big way.
May be you need to sit down and chat to him about it on a mutual day. Some of my friends have child free 'date nights' with their wife once a months or once a fortnight, where they just spend an afternoon/night together going out or something.
Hope that helps.
One night out with [MENTION=10061]Brick[/MENTION]; and he'll be worried
Send him a flirty (not slutty as he'll think way too much into it) text before he comes home. Even if its like 'i love you and cant wait to see you tonight'
That type of stuff can kick start some loving which leads to other emotions being shared
Thanks for your wise and (in some cases) funny replies guys!! Haha
He calmed himself down and finally fessed up that he just wanted a hug?!!??! So we got over that hurdle (again) - went over the same topics which always arise (nor change) and things have chilled.
I even put out tonight despite being awake since 0530hrs lol! We are on opposite shifts for the next few days now ;-)
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