chopsuey
New member
So hubby says I'm not affectionate enough.
He likes to cuddle etc, I don't mind - but rarely do I initiate a cuddle. I have been trying lately though.
He went out earlier and as he left I said that I loved him, he looked at me and walked out. No response or anything.
Three hours later he returns. The kids have worn me down, I'm tired etc. he carries on like I'm not even here. I confront him about what's going on - is he ok etc? He starts up about me not being affectionate. I reminded him of what I said prior to him leaving as he went out and he said they were just words etc. that really hurt.
I grew up in a household where there was little affection shown in the cuddle sense. We did things like cook, buy a gift, or some other practical task to help the other person out.
This has been a reoccurring thing. It's like he just doesn't give a shit now.
He likes to cuddle etc, I don't mind - but rarely do I initiate a cuddle. I have been trying lately though.
He went out earlier and as he left I said that I loved him, he looked at me and walked out. No response or anything.
Three hours later he returns. The kids have worn me down, I'm tired etc. he carries on like I'm not even here. I confront him about what's going on - is he ok etc? He starts up about me not being affectionate. I reminded him of what I said prior to him leaving as he went out and he said they were just words etc. that really hurt.
I grew up in a household where there was little affection shown in the cuddle sense. We did things like cook, buy a gift, or some other practical task to help the other person out.
This has been a reoccurring thing. It's like he just doesn't give a shit now.