Undercover
Kunce in training
See big mick that's the thing.
When u say we can't trust each other to do the right thing, we both believe that spending time alone with the opposite sex is going the wrong thing, as is texting, chatting etc.
In our belief that is cheating.
People don't go to meet for the sake of sexual intercourse, but relationships start from friendships, u are friends for a reason, cause u like each other, spending time together to me means that the relationship can flourish and develop into more.
So there is no need for it in my opinion.
Again though, each to their own. Everyone has the right to live their lives as they please.
If my wife and I agree with it, there's no problem.
That's the best part and important part, that we both have the same morals.
So when can you or your wife speak to people of the opposite sex? You can control not putting yourself in those positions socially but I'm sure in your heads you have at time think 'dirty, sexual' things so technically your cheating also?