my trophy cabinet would be empty then! lol
I agree with you on the 'everyone is a winner' bullshit. Thats stupid.
Kids keep score, they know who won. Even if there isnt an official count.
I coach kids (12's & 14's) and give them almighty rev ups before games and make sure they learn & are genuinely disapointed from a loss and celebrate any win, no matter if its a walkover or a 1 point ugly win. Previous coaches were happy for them just to be competitive, I want them to win every fucking game. Not just for me, but for them as well. Its surprising that the kids actually appreciate aggressive coaching. They really respond. So do the parents, even more surprisingly!!