When I was a teenager, I wanted to be an actress. I already did theatre & sang in bands, I was scouted doing Shakespeare & offered a scholarship to NIDA at the age of 16, which my parents had to consent to, because they almost never took students under the age of 21. I workshopped with Russel Crowe
he wasn't an oscar winner back then, but still has the best voice I've ever heard.
My mother was battling her first round of breast cancer & I was her only carer. My father thought 'acting' and 'performing' was stupid & told me to concentrate on a career that will 'mean something'. Both parents refused to sign the scholarship, so I didn't go
I didn't speak to my father, for two years after that. And I spent my graduating year of school nursing my mother through 3 rounds of chemotherapy & radiation treatment.
I still sang in a band, but gave up acting & theatre along lifes path. As soon as my mother was in remission, I bought a one way ticket out of the country & stayed away, until she needed me again 12 years later.
Life could have been very different for me.
But alas, we are meant to be where we end up I suppose. Unless we decide to make a change.
Now I've thrown away the 'meaningful career' to keep the hippie within sated with something far more therapeutic for the soul. Feels good