Need some advice from the resident experts of this thread.
My girl friend has finally come around to wanting to lift seriously instead of just cardio, pump and spin classes.
Obviously she's not looking to get huge (just strong, fit and defined) so just wondering if there's anything to avoid.
Obviously I know definition (body fat) is governed by diet but I've never really weight trained with girls before so I'm not sure how their body reacts.
Basically want to know if there's any potential downside for her to train for strength, using normal safety precautions of course.
How often does she plan on going a week?
My girlfriend comes with me 1-2x a week. She's not really looking to turn it into anything other than getting a bit fitter and something to do a few nights a week after work. So based on this, I cut out all the fluff and only get her to do things that will be measurable. In an ideal world, you would get someone to do the main compound lifts, but some people just don't like some of them, or they're not prepared to put in the time to get the technique right. So when she's starting, get her to try a few things out, and stick with the ones she enjoys.
For example, I tried the following which don't and will never work for my girlfriend. If I keep forcing her she'll just not go to the gym:
- Squats - Long legs so feels awkward for her.
- Overhead press - shoulders click, regardless or arm width, elbow position, barbell or dumbbells.
- Side or rear shoulder raises - Just can't get the technique right and hurts her neck.
These are the replacements that she actually likes:
- Box jumps.
- Exercise ball wall squats.
- Deadlifts.
- Pull ups.
- Dips.
The above list is pretty much her full body workout I get her to do. Body weight and compound exercises get the most bang for your buck if you're only going a few times a week. If she does get bored, I'll get her to do an upper and lower day with a few machine exercises thrown in.