Dancelot
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Fadi, Devante is the other bloke. I'm Dancelot (real name Linh).
I understand what you said, and you're absolutely right about the psychological aspect of it. What you proposed is the way to get someone to get shit done, so to speak, even if they hate the process.
My approach is, however, that the other side of the coin is not worth looking at. I'm frankly not interested in helping such people. If you're keen, love it and want to work hard, I will do everything I can to help you. If you're the opposite of that, I won't waste my time on you.
Which is why coaching for me is a hobby and not a job!
I've had many pursuits in life, never had a problem with motivation and never had to rely on anyone to prop me up. I make it as easy as possible for those whose counsel / teaching I seek. I ask for the same from people who want my help.
I actually have done lots of things I hate to achieve things I really want, and thus I understand its importance, but I didn't need anyone to psychologically manage me to do that. Pretty sure that's just called being a responsible adult.
I understand what you said, and you're absolutely right about the psychological aspect of it. What you proposed is the way to get someone to get shit done, so to speak, even if they hate the process.
My approach is, however, that the other side of the coin is not worth looking at. I'm frankly not interested in helping such people. If you're keen, love it and want to work hard, I will do everything I can to help you. If you're the opposite of that, I won't waste my time on you.
Which is why coaching for me is a hobby and not a job!
I've had many pursuits in life, never had a problem with motivation and never had to rely on anyone to prop me up. I make it as easy as possible for those whose counsel / teaching I seek. I ask for the same from people who want my help.
I actually have done lots of things I hate to achieve things I really want, and thus I understand its importance, but I didn't need anyone to psychologically manage me to do that. Pretty sure that's just called being a responsible adult.