Hey everyone.
Ive been seeing this girl a few weeks now, but after learning a bit more about here and her habits (not drugs, but heavy drinker and lets money slip through her fingers like sand) I dont want to see her anymore.
Problem is, I may be 25, but Im old fashioned....I dont like to hurt/upset women. Im having a hard time trying to think of a way to explain to her I dont want to be in a reletionship with her without hurting her too much emotionally. I'm returning messages with short answers and making excuses not to see her for now, but it wont last forever and I'm trying to let her make the decision not to see me rather than the other way around.
I was hoping some of the female members here might have some advice in this situation as most of the guys who post in this section will have opinions and comments that while are often funny, are not necessarily useful.
Before anyone asks - No I did not f*ck, screw, slap, hammer or smash this chick. So please, nobody suggest that I should use the "root em and boot em" tactic.
Ive been seeing this girl a few weeks now, but after learning a bit more about here and her habits (not drugs, but heavy drinker and lets money slip through her fingers like sand) I dont want to see her anymore.
Problem is, I may be 25, but Im old fashioned....I dont like to hurt/upset women. Im having a hard time trying to think of a way to explain to her I dont want to be in a reletionship with her without hurting her too much emotionally. I'm returning messages with short answers and making excuses not to see her for now, but it wont last forever and I'm trying to let her make the decision not to see me rather than the other way around.
I was hoping some of the female members here might have some advice in this situation as most of the guys who post in this section will have opinions and comments that while are often funny, are not necessarily useful.
Before anyone asks - No I did not f*ck, screw, slap, hammer or smash this chick. So please, nobody suggest that I should use the "root em and boot em" tactic.