Rugby88
I have Ep1c Calendar kunce
So as some of you may know my relationship of 3 1/2 years ended this week - now its been so long since my last break up that I really dont know how to react to it....of course the night it happened very upset then mad then upset...next day see her at a mates place of course weird and alot weirder considering friends were around that knew everything that was going on!
We went out with eachother on sat night for a dinner and movie - maybe to try and just spend time with eachother and talk - it was a good night but def some tension (not bad but not great lol) in the air...today comes and we needed to buy our dog food - she agreed to come over the night before when we were out - so went to buy dog food - was normal prob less tension than the night before.. but I could still tell she was fairly cold - got home I asked her if she wanted to chat we had abit of a chat she said she needed time to think about it etc....she went home I txt'd her acouple of times she replied and then I asked to call her we spoke - I explained it is pretty tough to cut off all communication etc etc - but then said I would give her space for acouple of days to think about things...
After we got off the phone I txt'd her to say Iam happy to give her space, have a good night and thanks for cooking the dog food (its a big job honestly!) our dog eats better than me lol
So do you think ive gone about this the wrong way - do u think I shouldnt of txt'd or rang after she left this morning - or not txted to say i'll give you space after the phone call....like I said its been so long since ive been in a break up and Iam a totally different person now I am not sure how to go about this...
Iam guessing its best to not contact her for acouple of days and listen to her...but should I contact or wait till she does - this would be hard!
Cheers guys!
We went out with eachother on sat night for a dinner and movie - maybe to try and just spend time with eachother and talk - it was a good night but def some tension (not bad but not great lol) in the air...today comes and we needed to buy our dog food - she agreed to come over the night before when we were out - so went to buy dog food - was normal prob less tension than the night before.. but I could still tell she was fairly cold - got home I asked her if she wanted to chat we had abit of a chat she said she needed time to think about it etc....she went home I txt'd her acouple of times she replied and then I asked to call her we spoke - I explained it is pretty tough to cut off all communication etc etc - but then said I would give her space for acouple of days to think about things...
After we got off the phone I txt'd her to say Iam happy to give her space, have a good night and thanks for cooking the dog food (its a big job honestly!) our dog eats better than me lol
So do you think ive gone about this the wrong way - do u think I shouldnt of txt'd or rang after she left this morning - or not txted to say i'll give you space after the phone call....like I said its been so long since ive been in a break up and Iam a totally different person now I am not sure how to go about this...
Iam guessing its best to not contact her for acouple of days and listen to her...but should I contact or wait till she does - this would be hard!
Cheers guys!