What women say they want and what they actually want are two very different things...
I became single earlier this year after about 3 1/2 years, so I kind of know what it's like. I've dated a few girls since then, and am realising that there are plenty of others out there, so you shouldn't have to spend time putting up with bullsh*t. If you do like the girl, you could try toning it down, but bottom line is you're single, and shouldn't have to answer to some girl you've known for a few weeks! Whatever you do, don't apologise for it. Could it be that she has some jealousy issues?
I'd at least give it another week or 2, and actually try talking to her face-to-face about it (I'm not a fan of texts, too easy to misinterpret). If it happens again, cut her loose.
That's my opinion anyways.
Sounds like you know what you want to do - enjoy being single and meet as many girls as possible! It's a chance to say fuck it, I'm gonna be selfish!
If you're in a relationship I think you do need to be a bit more careful about what you're posting on fb, because it could be disrespectful to your gf. But when you're single, especially if you're not looking for a relationship, then I don't think it's a problem. As long as you're comfortable with what's being posted then it's all good, and it also helps to show that you're getting on with life.
Yea mate - I would never post things like that if I had a gf...its just mates messing around...nothing really bad...but I just thought what would she be like if she was my gf lol....if she is txting me and getting pissed off about it and we hardly know eachother lol
Btw what happened with ur relationship?
Haha yeah, sounds like things would only get worse
We basically just grew apart, and became more like friends - we only really saw each other on weekends due to living about an hour apart, and each having commitments during the week. The last few months I could tell things had changed, and that she didn't feel the same way any more. It ended on pretty good terms, and we do still talk occasionally. Looking back I can see a few things that might have caused issues further down the track, so I think it was for the best.
Wow sounds like me man!! Its weird how many ppl stay together purely for the fact that they just want someone there...glad I got out of my relationship...I also now looking back can see some major things that would of caused shit down the track.
Yeah I reckon! It certainly sucks a bit at the time, but things get better pretty quickly. We probably shouldn't have stayed together as long as we did, I just never knew how to bring it up...
Let me get this right:
She said she isnt ready for a relationship yet but she doesnt want you to flirt (or whatever) with other chicks... wtf? Girls can be such head fks.
I think you should just be brutally honest with her. If i was you i would be telling her that you are a single male - key word being single, and that if she doesnt want you flirting with others you need a commitment from her.
This is only if you actually want to have the commitment with her. If not i would be cutting her loose now cause if she is like this already, i dont wanna know what she will be like after you have seen her a few times but is still not ready for a relationship..
One other thing to consider is you have only been single for what, a month or two now? Are you yourself ready to go back into a relationship so soon?
Dude if you arent ready for it... run!
You dont want a jealous wife after seeing her once...
Might sound harsh but you dont want to get yourself into something that will be hard to get out of.
lol thats it
I just found it weird she says shes not keen but then sends me that txt....When I got the msg I was sorta like oh shit what did I say on fb....but now im like whats it got to do with her anyway....I said shes a great girl blah blah blah, she explained what was going on with her..end of story...u dont go looking on someones fb and then start judging them lol
This thread is a bit bromancy for my liking lol
I'm in a pretty similar situation to you
Hooked up with this bird a few times and now she's asking me to go away with her over long weekends n shit
Lol given her sex drive I'm not complaining too much
Just a bit boyfriendy girlfriendy for my liking
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