Yes I agree that there are some men that don't deserve half of what they get, and it's probably their actions that impact on the rest of us.
I am a HUGE believer in Karma and I think it has already given me so much in return, the huge pressure I felt to do something stupid, I do sort of understand why a less controlled man would break. "Grace Under Pressure" is a phrase I live by nowdays, and has served me well, but compared to some blokes, I came through it well..