It's not always easy to put things into perspective, try to understand the other person's position and forgive them
farrrrk man that is painful...I can't not ever forgive my ex-wife or her mother, or the Court system either.
When we split up, I paid for her and the kids to relocate back to the city, and I drove her car 1500km's to Perth for her. Seemed like a good thing to do, mostly for my kids. We had a mutual agreement that I would fly back to see them.
As soon as she made it to Perth, her and her Mother both got restraining orders on me, they used each other as witnesses! The lies and bullshit cost me 7 months of time with my kids that i'll never get back. They were 3 and 4.
When I asked her why she did it, she said the lawyer told her to do it, so I couldn't take the kids away. The lazy magistrates couldn't see that a mother and daughter using each other as a witness was bullshit.
Now, more than 2 years on, I now live back in Perth with a 'normal' woman, and see my kids every RnR...the kids still beg to live with me, say that they don't get to do anything at home, get told to shut up and sit in the laundry...makes my blood boil every now and then.
I look forward to the day they can make up their own mind and come live with me...
I can't not ever forgive my ex-wife or her mother, or the Court system either.
When we split up, I paid for her and the kids to relocate back to the city, and I drove her car 1500km's to Perth for her. Seemed like a good thing to do, mostly for my kids. We had a mutual agreement that I would fly back to see them.
As soon as she made it to Perth, her and her Mother both got restraining orders on me, they used each other as witnesses! The lies and bullshit cost me 7 months of time with my kids that i'll never get back. They were 3 and 4.
When I asked her why she did it, she said the lawyer told her to do it, so I couldn't take the kids away. The lazy magistrates couldn't see that a mother and daughter using each other as a witness was bullshit.
Now, more than 2 years on, I now live back in Perth with a 'normal' woman, and see my kids every RnR...the kids still beg to live with me, say that they don't get to do anything at home, get told to shut up and sit in the laundry...makes my blood boil every now and then.
I look forward to the day they can make up their own mind and come live with me...
Mate thats fucking terrible...I am sorry but what is with women doing this? why do they react in this manner...I am not saying men dont but you hear so many stories like this...breaks ya heart!
I work for the dept that deals with child support and in a lot of cases it is a huge factor in ppl's decision making. The more care you have of the children, the more the other parent has to pay in support. So greedy ppl/lawyers will manipulate the system to get more care.
I work for the dept that deals with child support and in a lot of cases it is a huge factor in ppl's decision making. The more care you have of the children, the more the other parent has to pay in support. So greedy ppl/lawyers will manipulate the system to get more care.
This works both ways tho. A mate of mine was getting raped with this exact deal. So he set up an abn and worked under a business name, contracting himself to the company. He paid himself a wage of something small, like 500 a week, but paid his business the full amount. He only had to pay x amount of child support doing it this way. Mind you that was a few years ago now. Things might have changed. I don't have any kids so can't image how much of a head fuck this kinda crap is. I don't get how women get immediate right of way too. Makes me wana get all sexist up in this ma'fucker.
Oh, and fuck the legal system all together, it's a hypocrisy.
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