I've reached the point in my life, where even as a guy, I'm starting to think casual sex is pretty over-rated. (they never stay to do the washing and the dishes!
On the subject of let down calls/txts/skywriting...
"I'm sorry but i'm not interested"
"Please don't ever call me again or i'll call the police"
"My life is really complicated right now and i don't think i'm in a good space..."
"you'll never guess, i was selected for the space program, i'm off to houston tomorrow"
"<silence>"
"I'm going to be busy most of the week, i'll call you next week? ...", "Looks like i'm still busy this week, next month?", "<silence>"
"I've realized i'm just not ready for a relationship yet"
"Hey... I've been thinking a bit and my life is a bit complicated at the moment, i just don't think things will work out between us...."
Least likely to generate stalker responses?
How some variation of I had a great time, you're really nice, but not what I'm looking for in terms of a relationship sorry. (If happy to) I would like to keep in contact as friends bla bla
Be honest. Everything else is a cop out?
Better yet if you can do that on the night (in person) if you know it ain't right.
Say that you're having a great time but it's not what you're looking for in term of a relationship. Divert some attention and make yourself look good by saying 'I'd rather be honest upfront, you know what guys are like etc, I don't want to waste your time or hurt your feelings'. She'll appreciate that unless a psycho, and she may even give you the bonus of the night thrown in for being so good about it
Sounds like you need to practice this as you're just not comfortable having these conversations??
Sounds like you need to practice this as you're just not comfortable having these conversations??
Nail. Head. Hit.
repped!
exactly.
Honesty is the best policy, always. Even if you think it will hurt her feelings, even if you know she's not going to like it - better to be up front about how you're feeling and truthful, rather than kiss her, hold her, sleep with her, whisper sweet nothings to her and then pretend she never existed
No wonder women lose their shit. mwahahaha
Good advice Stews
Although, to be fair, i have had a woman or two do this to me before
If your not happy with the women within your comfort zone branch out and look elsewhere.
Oh yes, I know. It works both ways, definitely.
I'm waiting by my phone for the 'thanks but, no thanks' call or text. Better yet, grow a pair and fly me to Melbourne to do it in person!
(I can also get the peanut butter this way) mwahahaha
what do you do when you turn up on a date (particularly the 'blind' internet dating type) and just decide you're not interested, How do you end a date _without_ making out with the girl in question? If you do end up 'unintentionally' sleeping with someone on the first date, is it better just not to call?, or send a 'let down' message?
Make like you have tourette's. Slowly let your left eye wander while she's talking to you. Every 5th step, skip. Make passing references to "beards" and ask her how she'd feel if she was asked to be one. Refer to your penis as the 'slug,' and so forth. If she's still willing to date you, you should do what I did and marry her.
NFT, I may kiss for a jar of my peanut butter? lol
Then you can give me the 'thanks, but no thanks' sermon straight, to my face
Practice makes perfect
These are weird things? ..
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