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Stripper girlfriend problems

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I'm having a lot of difficulty with my current relationship and was just looking for some advice. I've been going out with this chick for a couple of months and I'm really struggling with her line of work. She works as an 'exotic dancer' at 2 different joints. At first she said something about hospitality work, she was a bit vague whenever I pressed it further. Finally she told me the truth a few weeks ago.

She was worried about my reaction but I told her it's cool don't worry. But I'm struggling to handle it really. It totally turns me off that other guys are staring at her, pprob put their hands on her. The thing is she is totally hot, awesome body...I could camp in her jugs, fucken love them. She's the hottest chick I've banged. I don't wanna let her go, but Im totally turned off by her work. What should I do?
 
Goo said:
I'm having a lot of difficulty with my current relationship and was just looking for some advice. I've been going out with this chick for a couple of months and I'm really struggling with her line of work. She works as an 'exotic dancer' at 2 different joints. At first she said something about hospitality work, she was a bit vague whenever I pressed it further. Finally she told me the truth a few weeks ago.

She was worried about my reaction but I told her it's cool don't worry. But I'm struggling to handle it really. It totally turns me off that other guys are staring at her, pprob put their hands on her. The thing is she is totally hot, awesome body...I could camp in her jugs, fucken love them. She's the hottest chick I've banged. I don't wanna let her go, but Im totally turned off by her work. What should I do?
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Buddy, Ill give you some advice, I once dated a stripper. Fantastic girl, great looking bird but also had a wonderful personality and of course was dynamite in the sack!

Anyway she was studying to become a physio and once she completed that she left the exotic dancing industry and went on to do her life time dream job, (she also then left me for a calvin klein model)

The point i am trying to make is it is not a career. It is something for her to do now to make some very good coin. I think you should encourage her but also find out what she really wants to do for a career and then once you have that answer help her towards that goal, IE - Find courses for her help her study, soon enough she will leave the industry and youll have a sexy goddess still on your arm
 
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Buddy, Ill give you some advice, I once dated a stripper. Fantastic girl, great looking bird but also had a wonderful personality and of course was dynamite in the sack!

Anyway she was studying to become a physio and once she completed that she left the exotic dancing industry and went on to do her life time dream job, (she also then left me for a calvin klein model)

The point i am trying to make is it is not a career. It is something for her to do now to make some very good coin. I think you should encourage her but also find out what she really wants to do for a career and then once you have that answer help her towards that goal, IE - Find courses for her help her study, soon enough she will leave the industry and youll have a sexy goddess still on your arm
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Thanks for the advice mate, bad luck about the Calven Klein model.

This girl isn't ambitious at all career wise, so not sure how/when she will leave the industry.

Did you find any problems with her work mates? There's a bouncer at one of the places she works who's a real prick. I don't trust him at all.
 
Nah, I work in Law Enforcement so they were also extremely nice to me (even thought they all wanted to bang her)

I think you should next time your with her ask her what she wants to be in 5 years, if she says "Owner of a strip joint" then maybe its time to walk away... If not heed my advice :)
 
If you can't handle it your never going to be able to. May as well get what you can out of it and dont get too attached if/when it turns bad.
 
Mate that's a tough gig, if she plans on doing it long term you're in a bit of trouble. I'll tell you one thing though, if you're not sure, don't get attached and just keep banging away. If all else fails, in 5 years time you'll only be looking back on great memories of how you FLAC in that period of your life.

Don't confuse a great set of tits and polished beef curtains for love. The first thing to fall in lust is the head of your cock - and initially it really overrides logic. A man is most truthful with himself in the minutes after ejaculation, so have a good bat/session with her then immediately think it over then. I know I am better decision making when my balls have been temporarily drained.

GL.
 
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Nah, I work in Law Enforcement so they were also extremely nice to me (even thought they all wanted to bang her)

I think you should next time your with her ask her what she wants to be in 5 years, if she says "Owner of a strip joint" then maybe its time to walk away... If not heed my advice :)
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^^^ this x 10.
 
Lol funny this thread should be posted....i have started to see this girl abit and me and my mates think she is a stripper or does porn...we are not sure yet but we know something is up...lol.

To be honest if you cant handle it dont go out with her, if she is willing to change careers for the relationship then thats great but if not and your not comfortable then just get out before stuff gets any deeper and you may end up getting hurt even more.
 
I thought I'd fill you in on what's been happening with Goo. He's a mate of mine, we work together, I introduced him to the forum. Anyway, I'm a bit worried about him ATM.

Monday at lunch he's telling me about his wild weekend. He said he got inspired by some of the suggestions in this thread about stripper orgys, so he suggested it to his missus and she was keen, said she'd talk to some of the girls at work. So Friday night he went out with his GF and 2 other chicks from the club. They all ended up at one of the chicks place...he said she was this smokin hot Asian babe with serious fuck me eyes. He reckoned she must have been a dominatrix, cause her place was like a dungeon, with all the sex equipment she had. There was a harness type thing that was attached to the ceiling apparently and Goo said he took turns banging each of the 3 strippers while they laid in the harness....all their bodyweight was supported by the harness, so he reckons he just smashed them like rag dolls. Fuck, I was jealous when he told me about it.

Anyway, on Saturday night he was feeling a bit run down so he stayed home, while his missus went off to the club to do her shift. He said he went out to the backyard to look for her dog cause she didn't come to the back door at the usual time for dinner. This was a sausage dog that his missus had owned for 12 years. He found the dog lying under a tree, frothing at the mouth, something seriously wrong with her. She wouldnt move at all, no matter what he tried, he even turned the hose on her but nothing. He said he never liked the dog, said she was a really unfriendly, whingeing pain in the ass bitch. Anyway while he was trying to figure out what to do with it, the dog eventually died...all happened within a half hour. So fucken Goo, the dumb ass, he doesn't know what to do with a dead dog...he wraps it up in newspaper and throws it in the wheelie bin. He thought it was what you do...NFI lol

Anyway, predictably, his missus hits the roof and kicks him out. He told me all this on Monday and said he was thinking of going to the club that night to talk to her and try and get her back. He was a bit worried about the bouncer though, said he was a vicious looking prick. Reckons his missus said that this guy was Russian, and the owners of the club were maybe connected with the Russian mafia. Anyway, Goo hasn't been at work last 2 days so I dunno what's going on. If he's not there today Im seriously thinking I'll have to tell someone about all this. Hope you're alright bud.
 
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