I I also like to go out with my girlfriends for lunch and my husband for dinner and I don't want to not be able to have a glass of wine and soda and a nice piece of meat when it arises. My boy is of Indian descent and makes AMAZING curries from scratch which I don't want to miss out on also (the true ones from his families region contain only spices, meat, water, tom sauce and some condiments). So there you go, are you getting a clearer picture. I want to look like Marzia Prince but without the diet!