After failing a lift....try again next session/week.
If you still fail, then consider what you can do to build upto that lift.
Oh, you'll obviously need to determine why you failed, if its a psychological failure its easier to push through than a physical failure...[/QUOTE]
I dont agree 100% man. We have quite a few forum members (myself included) who are capable of lifting more, but cant get past the mental block.
My bench was stuck at 115kg for ages. I could do 3x3 at 112.5, but put 117.5kg on the bar, and it would get burried on my chest. It was all mental.