I had no gaydar when I was in my early and mid 20's. Two of my semi long term relationships were with women who had awesome bodies (as in strong). They seemed to hang around with so very dykie looking freinds, did not want to settle down and procreate, would not suck the dick only lick it.. As it turns out they were probably confused and after spending funky time with me they reverted to their rug munching ways. No I never got to see them girl on girl but they were very tidy and extremely clean.