Is wanting a relationship a phase?

[kindred]

I was thinking about the nature of people in general and how there seems to be a fair few phases. For example theres the shit hair cut phase and the i want to fuck 5 women at once phase while in a vat of chocolate moose. Also the always popular holy shit im old better buy a new car and get a young girlfriend (mid life crisis). Can wanting a relationship be a phase? Cause lately ive been thinking id rather work on my own education and maybe get a better job or find some other way to make money. Women really havent been crossing my mind much other than yeah id love to bang her in a vat of chocolate moose... i may be bored at work right now!

 

[Grippy]

You have too much time to think

 

[knoted]

No.

And neither is fucking 5 women at once, it never passes.

 

[Oli]

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[Vman]

go read:
I hope they serve beer in hell.

 

[Bench Polkov]

If it is then my wife is going to be pissed when I grow out of this one.

 

[GHOSTrun]

Kindred, even if you want one, wanting one is not going to magiacally make it happen. You first need to sort out the other aspects of your life to create a suitable environment which will lead to a successful relationship.

Some examples of facets in your life to get sorted and be routine are;
- work
- training
- grocery shopping/house work
- socialising with friends
- spending time with family
- team sports/activities
- hobbies
- etc

If your life is empty, initially when you meet a chick it'll go good for a few weeks but then she'll see how empty your life is, and she'll either get bored because your low status will become apparent or get sick of you smothering her in an overcompensating way to try and fill the void for everything else that's missing in your life, that is, if she's normal. If she's different/broken, then what you bring to the table may work/might be what she's looking for, depends on the girl.

Either way if you don't put yourself out there to meet new people you'll never meet someone. When it comes to chicks failing isn't losing the race it's not being in the race.

 

[TrentZor]

Totally agree with what ghost has said couldn't have typed it better myself.
The above is what I call a "made man". Where all aspects of your life is in balance.

 

[BoyFromAus]

Kindred, even if you want one, wanting one is not going to magiacally make it happen. You first need to sort out the other aspects of your life to create a suitable environment which will lead to a successful relationship.

Some examples of facets in your life to get sorted and be routine are;
- work
- training
- grocery shopping/house work
- socialising with friends
- spending time with family
- team sports/activities
- hobbies
- etc

If your life is empty, initially when you meet a chick it'll go good for a few weeks but then she'll see how empty your life is, and she'll either get bored because your low status will become apparent or get sick of you smothering her in an overcompensating way to try and fill the void for everything else that's missing in your life, that is, if she's normal. If she's different/broken, then what you bring to the table may work/might be what she's looking for, depends on the girl.

Either way if you don't put yourself out there to meet new people you'll never meet someone. When it comes to chicks failing isn't losing the race it's not being in the race.

very well said

 

[Gauche]

X 2

Tried explaining something similar to a mate after a break up. He didn't listen and went out with an easy 17 year old. I highly doubt he will even mature in that area.

 

[PowerBuilder]

And neither is fucking 5 women at once, it never passes.

It's good when doing it though

 

[kindred]

I have come to the conclusion that its all down to boredom. Everything is from my dumb posts to the urge to make sweet sweet love to 3 Canadian exchange students while wearing a scooba suit with a hole cut out where the genitals should be... covered in mapple syrup... im sorry i forgot why i was replying to this post.

 

[Gauche]

Why don't you save up for a few hookers? Have a good pull before hand and smash some Viagra! You will forget all about relationships for a good hour.

 

[GHOSTrun]

^ your avatar made me lol

 

[Gauche]

I wish it was original I seen it about a year ago on some forum and lost it laughing. Just made my own version.