Well, I don't want to incriminate anyone so I can't give juicy details.. but all I will say is there are a lot of unhappily married/engaged women (of course men, too). Their husbands have absolutely no idea what is going on behind their back. From the outside, it looks like a perfect marriage/engagement, and they're happy with one another. If they were arguing, fighting or just not suited I could semi-understand, but these are couples who have it all and are "happy". The shocking thing is, some of these girls are sweet hearts - you wouldn't even think for a second.
In any case I am not speaking of myself specifically, although I have had more opportunity in the last 6 months with women who are taken than those who are available. What the fruit is with that? The allure of wanting what you can't have? My mates say what makes me even more irresistible (if I wasn't already delicious enough
) is that I completely shut down any advances from someone who is taken or avoid them completely. It just doesn't sit right with me getting stuck into someone else woman, so I never have and probably never will.
My mates just think I am taking the moral high ground and "you idiot, if not you, it will be someone else any way" which is probably true, but I don't want further head aches.
Maybe one day I will elaborate further, but for now, this is like a case in court.. trial still going... sealed lips.