This is going nowhere.
The bench press is a competition lift as well as an exercise.
The bent row is purely an exercise, albeit a better one than the bench press.
The bench press, rightly or wrongly, will always remain the most popular exercise in the gym.
The bent row will remain popular only with those that care about the most important muscle groups
Most people judge a lifter by bicep size, I judge by back development.
Most recreational lifters in gyms have backs like ironing boards