Fair enough didn't mean for my post to be cünty, I'd love to do what you do but with a young family myself it'd be a major battle to get by on that.
And that's fair enough. We wouldn't be doing well if this was our sole income - but then, if I were the sole breadwinner I'd choose to work more than 20-25hr a week.
one of my mates is a commercial gym pt, he reckons he makes the same as when he was labouring around 75k gross. But he pretty much works every morning and evening of the week, not very family friends but he gets to train heaps between clients and enjoys it
And there it is.
My idea with this thread from the beginning was to give people a realistic idea of what it's like to be a PT. Any dickhead can get into it, and lots of the people into it
are dickheads. But it takes some work to be good at it. The money and hours aren't great, and most clients and almost all gym members ignore your advice. But the few who listen - you change their lives.
One guy I trained recovering from cancer, he said, "Kyle, you saved my life."
"Um thanks, but I think that was the surgeons."
"No, they kept my body alive, but you saved my
life. I used to have to just sleep all the time, but I went from being able to be active two days a week, to five. With two days a week there was no way I could keep my job and my girlfriend, now I can. That's my life."
And then there's taking a woman in her 60s from being stuck in bed hopped up on morphine because of sciatic pain, to a couple of years later deadlifting 100kg at a national powerlifting competition. I think her 200 total was last in her weight class except maybe for some 13yo girl, but she's still happy.
Those are big examples but there are lots of little ones. Past paying the bills, what do we spend our money on? Stuff to make us happy. So maybe if we enjoy our jobs, we don't need to spend as much money outside them.
That's a decision every person has to make for themselves. I started this career and this thread because I've always believed in choices. Maybe a woman in her 60s wants to do PL comps, maybe she doesn't - but if she can't even squat the empty bar, she has no choice. Being stronger gives you choices. Maybe a guy in his 30s recovering from cancer
wants to just lie around for 5 days a week, but if he's weak and unfit he has no choice, he has to. Being fitter or more flexible gives you choices.
Maybe someone doesn't want to be a trainer, whether because of the money and the hours, or it just doesn't interest them. But if they don't know what the whole thing involves, then they can't do it, they have no choice. Being better-informed about what a career is like gives you choices, too.