You want to get yourself over here and try a hot spring.
Dozens of guys showering together then relaxing in a big tub or lounging around by one,stark bollocky nekid.
Have to admit it was VERY daunting the first time I tried it,especially when a little kid points at me and yells out "Look Papa!A white man!" and the whole place turns around to have a gawk.
But,I have never seen anything remotely homo.
where are you?? they call you a white man?? are you in africa?