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BigRed Kunce
Got a very close relative dying of Cancer. Prolly got 6-12 months left to live max (with constant treatment). Person is very bed ridden, pisses themselves constantly, can't eat or drink much and suffers constant pain. They wish they had of died years ago after a heart attack. They keep putting off treatment which they need otherwise they will die a lot faster.
All I can think of and have been doing is trying to arrange things to lift their spirits and make their life a bit easier so they do the treatment.
Working in a hospital now i see cancer patients on a regular basis in the palative ward.
Unfortunately for many of them cancer is not a wake up call, it's a curtain call.
To say it's not nice would have to be one of the nicest things said about it.