Swinging Lifestyle / Open Relationships

**Big Mick** · 30-07-2012 12:33 AM

Has anyone had any experience with this, either good or bad?

Has anyone been approached by anyone or been put in strange situations?

Has anyone considered it?

Has anyone beens asked by their partner??

Is anyone into it with their wife or GF??

This could also include three somes, which I believe in some way relate to swinging I guess.

Just want to hear some members experiences and thoughts as I had a recent strange experience that I may share later

**kaz** · 30-07-2012 12:38 AM

My offsider at work is a swinger. She is nothing to look at, neither is her husband but they are quite involved in the lifestyle and have a happy loving relationship. Could work for some......

**Big Mick** · 30-07-2012 12:42 AM

Interesting, does she admit to it freely and let it be known??

Has she ever approached you??

Approximate age would be of interest as I believe most swingers are 'old' and over weight ie late 40's and in their 50's, not sure why, but I have never seen any hot 24 year old swingers...

**Bella** · 30-07-2012 12:44 AM

Oh well you gotta spill it now Mick! lolol

One of my best gf's (age 26) and her hubby (age 34) swing. Desperately in love, happy relationship - they just like seeing eachother screw other people. They have 'safe words' and they only progress if they both want in on the action. If one wants out part way through, they have words for that too.

I used to love listening to their stories, they made me laugh so much. They have 'regulars' who they see now, 2 couples who they swing with all the time. But they've had some hysterical meet up's and a few good quality 'fisting' stories that had me crying, I was laughing so hard

Threesomes, I think, are a different beast entirely. Swinging only works if both partners are comfortable and in agreement and they have to love and respect one another completely.

Personally, I don't think I could watch the man I love, smashing another woman. I would be rage filled that my penis has parked itself elsewhere!

But hey, that's me.

Everybody's different

Spill it!

**Big Mick** · 30-07-2012 12:49 AM

Cool, so what is the inherit difference between swinging and a threesome??

Does swinging alway involve two couples swapping or could swinging relate to a couple involving a third party on a regular (or not regular)basis, for example where hubby/BF shares his wife with various men or vice versa??

I am a bit of a retard with this stuff, and don't really know much about it and did not really realise it went on in real life rather than just in internet porn.

**kaz** · 30-07-2012 12:49 AM

Originally Posted by Big Mick

Interesting, does she admit to it freely and let it be known??
** Its definately not a secret, my ears have burned from details.

Has she ever approached you??
**Hell no. This would be sexual harrassment. ie workplace.

Approximate age would be of interest as I believe most swingers are 'old' and over weight ie late 40's and in their 50's, not sure why, but I have never seen any hot 24 year old swingers...
**Both in the late 30's, no kids, he's an interstate truck driver

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