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fobzy · 06-02-2010, 11:35 AM

Hey everyone

So I've been training for about 4 years. Made some decent gains and slowly gettin there. My problem is with alcohol tho.

I pretty much stopped drinking , havin a couple drinks here and there. I was ok with it cause I had a gf and could stay away from clubbing.

But my gf just broke up with me. I wanna go out but its hard for me sober.

How do u guys balance it? I've mentally screwed myself because I drink and stress about training but at the same time I'm not gonna meet girls sober in a club

Admin · 06-02-2010, 12:05 PM

yes you will meet girls sober at the club , no chick like a drunken fool tripping all over them
need to remain confident

n00bs · 06-02-2010, 12:13 PM

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My problem is with alcohol

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I'm not gonna meet girls sober in a club

You already know the problem you wont find any justificaitons here.

What decent girls will you meant drunk in a club anyway. I suggest you re think the priorities in life.

Shrek · 06-02-2010, 01:18 PM

The only way to meet a girl is sober. My judgement is blurred when pissed (when I use to have a drink).

ceffo · 06-02-2010, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Shrek

The only way to meet a girl is sober. My judgement is blurred when pissed (when I use to have a drink).

the fat chicks look better to me..

Tall_Tim · 06-02-2010, 10:51 PM

Im not trying to sound harsh, but problems with alcohol are not going to get better by drinking more or trying to find reasons to drink. I know, Ive been there. Your disciplined with your training and diet? You have to maintain that discipline for things to get better.
Besides at 24 (I checked your public profile) wouldn't the money from all the $7 beers each weekend be better off going towards saving up to move out or paying mortgage/rent if you have already?

Silverback · 07-02-2010, 09:36 AM

The only advice I can give is ; be yourself and you can't go wrong.

stralian · 07-02-2010, 01:45 PM

All the best with staying off the drink mate.

I always thought of it this way, is the kind of girl you meet at a club (especially in a drunken stupor) really the kind of girl you want to be with?
Some of you might say yes, but my answer is no.
I was more interested in the kind of girl you would spend the rest of your life with, not just the rest of the night.

trofius · 07-02-2010, 02:25 PM

Or look at it like this, If you stay off the piss train and eat hard, You will get huge and ripped, Some chicks like this I have heard,....BEside you may even find a very tidy like minded young lady at the gym if you spent more time there!

A few things to contemplate!.

fobzy · 07-02-2010, 03:54 PM

thanks guys

just finding it difficult cause im pretty much the only one out of a pretty big group of mates that even worries about drinking. Actually, i dont think I know one person, either from work or mates, that cares about drinking. even my gym partner drinks like a fish every weekend

(incase anyone suggests making new friends, then no. they are all good people and ive known them all my life)

now that I spend more time with them its just hard. People meet up for pre drinks and I try and stretch one drink out over an hour

also im not really looking to meet a wife in a club, just to have some fun. And i struggle to do a cold approach to a chick sober

good vibes is next weekend, and im already stressing on how to dodge drinks. its a long day on water

I dont know how you guys do it !

06-02-2010, 11:35 AM	#1 (permalink)
fobzy Newbie Join Date: Oct 2009 Gender: Posts: 4	some help Hey everyone So I've been training for about 4 years. Made some decent gains and slowly gettin there. My problem is with alcohol tho. I pretty much stopped drinking , havin a couple drinks here and there. I was ok with it cause I had a gf and could stay away from clubbing. But my gf just broke up with me. I wanna go out but its hard for me sober. How do u guys balance it? I've mentally screwed myself because I drink and stress about training but at the same time I'm not gonna meet girls sober in a club

06-02-2010, 12:05 PM	#2 (permalink)
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06-02-2010, 01:18 PM	#4 (permalink)
Shrek Super Moderator Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Sydney Gender: Posts: 3,581	The only way to meet a girl is sober. My judgement is blurred when pissed (when I use to have a drink). __________________ Cheers Adrian "Don't spend much time listening to someone talk about something they have never done." Introduce Yourself

06-02-2010, 10:51 PM	#6 (permalink)
Tall_Tim Junior Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Penriff Gender: Posts: 127	Im not trying to sound harsh, but problems with alcohol are not going to get better by drinking more or trying to find reasons to drink. I know, Ive been there. Your disciplined with your training and diet? You have to maintain that discipline for things to get better. Besides at 24 (I checked your public profile) wouldn't the money from all the $7 beers each weekend be better off going towards saving up to move out or paying mortgage/rent if you have already? __________________ Why are common sense and common courtesy two of the rarest things on the planet?

07-02-2010, 09:36 AM	#7 (permalink)
Silverback Super Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Between the sublime and the ridiculous Gender: Posts: 451	The only advice I can give is ; be yourself and you can't go wrong. __________________ Res non Verba

07-02-2010, 01:45 PM	#8 (permalink)
stralian Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: QLD Gender: Posts: 104	All the best with staying off the drink mate. I always thought of it this way, is the kind of girl you meet at a club (especially in a drunken stupor) really the kind of girl you want to be with? Some of you might say yes, but my answer is no. I was more interested in the kind of girl you would spend the rest of your life with, not just the rest of the night. __________________ The Aussie Way! http://ausbb.com/rules-information-m...eam-ausbb.html

07-02-2010, 02:25 PM	#9 (permalink)
trofius Super Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Rockhampton Gender: Posts: 594	Or look at it like this, If you stay off the piss train and eat hard, You will get huge and ripped, Some chicks like this I have heard,....BEside you may even find a very tidy like minded young lady at the gym if you spent more time there! A few things to contemplate!. __________________ Mick.. Currently 69kg @ ~16%bf, target 75kg @ 12%bf, 1 RM:117kg bench, 115kg squat, 140kg dead, 65kg military press, 75kg push press, 70kg power clean. http://ausbb.com/member-training-dia...ys-2010-a.html

07-02-2010, 03:54 PM	#10 (permalink)
fobzy Newbie Join Date: Oct 2009 Gender: Posts: 4	thanks guys just finding it difficult cause im pretty much the only one out of a pretty big group of mates that even worries about drinking. Actually, i dont think I know one person, either from work or mates, that cares about drinking. even my gym partner drinks like a fish every weekend (incase anyone suggests making new friends, then no. they are all good people and ive known them all my life) now that I spend more time with them its just hard. People meet up for pre drinks and I try and stretch one drink out over an hour also im not really looking to meet a wife in a club, just to have some fun. And i struggle to do a cold approach to a chick sober good vibes is next weekend, and im already stressing on how to dodge drinks. its a long day on water I dont know how you guys do it !