Think I will have to pull up this thread again when the boy gets back on Sunday!
I can't stand women's gyms and I have worked in one. But I guess I kind of have a different appreciation for them. For most of the women at these gyms, it is their 'me time'. It's not about being thin, it's about escaping the kids, house and work for some adult time where you are the only person that you have to think about. When they first start, it is all about losing weight, but they stay because that 30 minute session on the incline bike might be the only time that week they get without the kids and husband around. Plus if they get their heart pumping a bit, the exercise endorphins kick in and they get hooked, so it becomes about physical and mental health rather than weight.
Mum got back into exercise through Curves/Contours (can't tell the difference) because her friend owns one. After a few months of being told she was outside the 'safe cardio zone' and being told to stop putting the weights on the machine up, she decided it ws time to find somewhere more challenging. She is 49 soon and has no more chicken wings.