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Danger: The Friend-Zone

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BoyFromAus

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So here's my story for you:

Like many of these stories, I met a girl who I initially had no attraction to. I just thought she was the typical boring bogan.

But then we started having some really deep conversations about spirituality, issues from our past, family, failed relationships etc. I felt that we were on such a unique mental wavelength and there was a lot of rapport. We'd catch up (just as mates) over a coffee or a drink regularly and just chat away.


At first, I just saw her as a friend and someone I can chat to about this stuff. But now (about 3 months later), I find that I'm just really mentally attracted to her. And physically, she's starting to appear very pretty too.

Unfortunately, I don't think she sees me in the same way. I'd like to know what should I do, to get out of this friend-zone and get into partner-zone.

I've already tried getting her out of my mind by hooking up with other girls.. Didn't work.

Thanks and it's much appreciated..
 
When are the young blokes of today gonna learn. Dogs are for companionship women are for fucking.
 
She's probably thought about it, so there's an answer waiting....

If your luck is anything like mine it's gonna be 'no'. In which case I have found it better to say 'I think I need a break for a while then' and take it. Socialise a lot and forget about her. If she's a good person she'll understand.

Two things you don't want to do are
- get a 'no', then hang around and hope her mind will change
- not ask for a long time, fearful of the response
 
I think we went over all this with another member. By memory theres also another thread on this very topic.
 
Don't always assume being in the friend zone means you can't have more. ..I was in that zone for ages. .. last november I just blurted out that I want more. .. and it was on like donkey kong. ..still together now. :)
Grow a pair and go for it!
 
wingman said:
Damn i keep getting it round the wrong way! :p
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the longer you wait the longer you run the risk that she will decide that you aren't interested and move on (from personal experience lol)
 
Ask her out (specifically say 'date' so it isn't two friends going out) or make a move. Either will get you an answer.
 
I'm not surprised you're finding her more attractive these days. This is what happens when you get seduced by what the person has on the inside - they appear more beautiful on the whole. It happens conversely too. Women you initially think are attractive become less so if they reveal a poor character.

I'd be going for her, move in for the kill lol. Don't die wondering. If she just wants to be friends and you're still really attracted to her, then see her less often...wean yourself off her.
 
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