mocha
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Long story long..
So there's a girl at my current work.. ( there always seems to be just one wherever I go.. who tends to hate me and treat me like shit for no reason, so i tend to put it down to jealously, because I look at myself first and cant see any reason as to why she would treat me like that.. I treat everyone as my friend when i meet them and have no intention of creating more political bullshit at work with backstabbing etc.)
Anyways, I figure because i tend to get along with most people at work,and people often come upto my desk to have a chat with me even though im only in once or twice a week, bring me a cookie or something..
So I think she is just a jealous bitch.. she speaks like a child, acts like a child, embarrasses me for things i didnt even do wrong, practically making me look reallly bad in front of everyone,then when i point out i was right in the end she doesn't apologise.. so everyone only hears her loudly go on about my "mistakes"
I spoke to my boss about it, and he had a talk with her and she "cried " to him.. probably just acting and he told her to apologise to me which she never did..
anyways i practically hate this bitch.. im 22 and shes 28 but she is the most immature person.
I dont want to hate her because I know its only hurting myself lol, and if its affecting me then shes winning.. and its my loss etc, i dont want to have any negative energy towards anyone..
how can i stop hating someone and holding a grudge?
So there's a girl at my current work.. ( there always seems to be just one wherever I go.. who tends to hate me and treat me like shit for no reason, so i tend to put it down to jealously, because I look at myself first and cant see any reason as to why she would treat me like that.. I treat everyone as my friend when i meet them and have no intention of creating more political bullshit at work with backstabbing etc.)
Anyways, I figure because i tend to get along with most people at work,and people often come upto my desk to have a chat with me even though im only in once or twice a week, bring me a cookie or something..
So I think she is just a jealous bitch.. she speaks like a child, acts like a child, embarrasses me for things i didnt even do wrong, practically making me look reallly bad in front of everyone,then when i point out i was right in the end she doesn't apologise.. so everyone only hears her loudly go on about my "mistakes"
I spoke to my boss about it, and he had a talk with her and she "cried " to him.. probably just acting and he told her to apologise to me which she never did..
anyways i practically hate this bitch.. im 22 and shes 28 but she is the most immature person.
I dont want to hate her because I know its only hurting myself lol, and if its affecting me then shes winning.. and its my loss etc, i dont want to have any negative energy towards anyone..
how can i stop hating someone and holding a grudge?