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gf too clingy , sure a close relationship is all fair enough , but still need breathing room , room to stretch out with out having to check in all the time , couldn't handle it anymore so needed to tell her to take a hike
the worst would have to be being used , young and stupid and blinded by "love"
DKD
Private Dancer
I worked with a basket case of a bloke, whose GF was even weirder.....she'd call him all the time while he was at work. When he was at the Xmas party she rang him about 6 times....shit, talk about clingy. Thank fk I don't have to put up with that kind of shit.
They've split up now and this guy is now going out with the ugliest woman in our office.
They've split up now and this guy is now going out with the ugliest woman in our office.
Christian
Active Member, June10MOTM
GF engaged to another man... woops!
And she hasnt left him?
I dont think you have though this through...
Haha
It was awhile ago and I gave her the ultimatum to either break it off with him (security, impending marriage) or stick with me (ok at the time but no promises etc.) and she chose the former.
I felt used lol
Persistenttiger
New member
Indeed!
Worst thing that has been done to me to break my heart was being cheated on... to make matters worse I found out when I was 8 months pregnant. It was the emotional relationship which was harder for me to take than the physical cheating. We worked through it though - been married for 8 years in total. Trust was VERY hard to get back again.
Worst thing that has been done to me to break my heart was being cheated on... to make matters worse I found out when I was 8 months pregnant. It was the emotional relationship which was harder for me to take than the physical cheating. We worked through it though - been married for 8 years in total. Trust was VERY hard to get back again.
mocha
New member
noo.. not really.. sometimes i just feel so let down and hurt like on past annis and bdays.. and i know i shouldnt hold the past against him but i can only get hurt so may times cos i feel like he doesnt make an effort..
but just when we have arguments he laughs at me and gets defensive and angry and gets all logical and only cares about winning the argument instead of trying to make me feel better
GF engaged to another man... woops!
wtf?
no idea what that means lol
oh my god thats so horrible to hear
sorry.. im sure it made u strong..how did u even find out? did he seem like the type to go off and flirt or totally unexpected?
noo.. not really.. sometimes i just feel so let down and hurt like on past annis and bdays.. and i know i shouldnt hold the past against him but i can only get hurt so may times cos i feel like he doesnt make an effort..
but just when we have arguments he laughs at me and gets defensive and angry and gets all logical and only cares about winning the argument instead of trying to make me feel better
He is male you got to expect that from him.
mocha
New member
arent there guys that just get it tho?? what to do when a girls upset, not just walk away cos ur shitty or yell at her/laugh in her face
apart from gay dudes?
There maybe guys like that but not many. Best way to deal with it is to tell him the issue and hen let him go and think about it. That will stop.him from deflecting with laughter or anger and getting into an srgument and thinking of only winning.
mocha
New member
ahh ok, thanks.. i guess its good to know hes not just like.. a robot in terms of understanding